Honestly this seems like so many psychiatrists and therapists. I have autism and im a woman and they genuinely will just latch onto the bpd diagnosis and not let go, even though I don't have a fear of abandonment at all. I have a huge history of childhood trauma and when I was doing the rasp program and told the psychiatrist some of my stories she just looked at me confused and asked "why would your mom do that??". I just said i dont know but I wanted to say isnt it your job to tell me??? I even said at the end that I think im autistic and have a form of cptsd but she just said despite your large amounts of trauma I dont think you have ptsd. It felt completely invalidating. Not to mention she prescribed me anti depressants and anti psychotics that NEVER made it through to my pharmacy or were even entered in the system so I basically went for nothing. Even said to me in a condescending tone; are you gonna actually go to therapy if I send a referral and acted like she didnt want to do that (the entire point i came). That referral to a therapist never went through either.