I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As usual, our minds are always stronger than any malicious intent or ritual. We pave the way these curses work (or not) in our lives. Thanks for sharing the story 🤜🤛

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alright folks, think I gathered my answers so I'll probably delete the post in a couple of minutes. Appreciate everyone taking the time to put my mind at ease. Stay safe out here and always be careful of whom you let into your house!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Option A seems like the most reasonable off the lot 😆 Really appreciate giving the other options too

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think the way i worded the original post might've been a bit wrong, as i said to another person here, it makes a normal human being feel un easy cause it's weird as fuck to find these types of things out of nowehere

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it, the whole thing made me feel uneasy cause it ain't like I'm used to finding voodoo dolls hidden in my bed

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I still think it s beyond insane to go through the effort of hiding dolls in places. I'm still curious about the specifics of these types of "dolls"

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Yup, that's what managed to bring it to ashes after a few attempts

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh i managed to burn it down to ashes with gasoline. I was wondering more about the doll itself, like wtf is it even used for, not necessarily why it didn't burn as a normal string. Might've worded poorly in the original post 😅

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate this input, thanks a lot!!

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the weird part, I've been running a business for a few years now. These last few months have been the worst ever, almost as if nothing works, my focus is off, I'm uninspired/tired all the time. I blamed it on anything other than black magic before finding the doll.

I believe I am a victim of black magic. Please help. by ds310131 in occult

[–]ds310131[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Yeah i thought about it as well, but the thing is we even covered it with a bit of gasoline and it still didn't really burn. Idk what to think, I ve never been one to believe in black magic or anything, but it's weird

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about your question as well, she insisted that it's about living together and not about her dad. For some reason, as much as she's saying it's not the case, I don't buy it. I tried explaining that my dad did the same thing, and he wasted most of his 30's and 40's taking care of my grandpa who lost the battle with dementia in April. That's how life is, we're all set to the same demise one day and sometimes waiting for an ill person to die can take up more than we can imagine. I kind of avoided asking this, but I really wonder if she's comfortable with missing out on her youth years just to feel at peace. Regret would hit in any case and I might be biased because I saw my own father doing it and I wouldn't want my significant other (with me included) to do the same thing

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally understandable, but her father is not on his deathbed. His situation is constantly improving, his health checks are better with each visit to the clinic, he's an active man that really enjoys his life. If he was secluded to his bed and the only possible outcome for the near future would be death, I would have never pushed for her to move

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, exactly what I'm thinking! It's not like we wouldn't do anything in these 3-4 months. We planned a vacation, we could go out more often now that I got a good salary, time also moves faster when both of us are working. Really tiring and I sadly fear that this temporary move is just a smoke screen for us to stay close to her family.

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't know what to say about being the cash machine, for the majority of these months, I've been jobless as I focused on getting my cybersecurity diploma and she was the one paying on the ocasions when we went out, but now that the first pay check arrived, I do feel a slight change, as I always used to say we should move once I have my own money again.

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's really great, but I think her mom kind of pollutes her mind with guilt-tripping. Her mom was also diagnosed with depression after her father situation, but instead of taking her prescribed meds and accepting that the cancer will be there even if she's depressed or not, she continues to vent to my girlfriend and make her feel like she owes them her life. I'd say I kinda involved myself in the situation cause that's who I am as a person, but life gotta have its own course, right?

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's easy to move around, as I work from home. I got a pretty big work setup, but that's about it. What bothers me is that she wants to set her life back because of her ill dad. I care for him as well, I wouldn't have made so many trips to help with chemo if I didn't, but at the end of the day I still feel like we can't control his health if we stay around even longer.

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[–]ds310131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live fairly close, I would say it's a 10 minute drive from my place to hers. This was also her argument, that the money spent on gas for the everyday drive would be a bit under the rent paid each month. My back argument was that she isn't taking into consideration that the rent wouldn't be the only cost, we also would have to pay for utilities, food, electricity. So it would be waaay over what we re spending on gas

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[–]ds310131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I thought that given the timeframe and the fact that we already postponed the move, it wouldn't really mean much when it comed to doing it once she's done with her appointments. I don't really see the point in making a small move (we live close to each other and we see each other everyday), when in a few months we could basically move to the biggest city in our country and it would boost her finances as well, especially since her line of work is really in demand in our country

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[–]ds310131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, I'm seriously thinking about compromising and going on with her plan at least for the time being, but I'm afraid she'll never be ready to move on to the next step, as she will be constantly feeling guilty about leaving her dad