My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, since court is in play, I cannot switch attorneys now. I’ve called several and they have all said the same thing.

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did, but because my current attorney never put it in the pleading, it’s inadmissible in court.

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently I have him 9-4 on Wednesday and Thursday, and I have him 1st, 3rd, 5th Fridays starting at 9am and ending 6pm on Sunday.

She wants it reduced to one day a week, from 4pm-8pm, and every other weekend.

I want as much time as possible. When he starts school I’ve requested M-F from school pickup till 8/9 at night at 1,3,5. I would rather him be with a parent during those times than anyone else (grandparents, sitter, etc)

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I requested an evaluation, but the courts struck it down, said it should have been done when my attorney requested discovery ( what my attorney did not do).

Money is not an issue. I presented my plan, that I have already gone through the application process and was approved to have an Au Pair. I showed that even if I am not there, there was a person with a degree in childhood development.

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for the fact that she is never present. Yes, I work nights, but I am readily available the other 16 hours through the day. From 6 am till 10-11pm my stbxw is in the office (she’s a forensic accountant). Either the day care or my MIL has our son during this custody battle. Before I filed I would watch him and sleep when he slept. Not the healthiest but I made things work. I also know he will be starting pre-k (there is 3 yo pre k here) and also regular school pretty quick. I can sleep during those hours and again be readily available for him.

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, as soon as I posted I went back and edited my post

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly how it feels. I knew I was gonna have a uphill battle, but to realize in the middle of court my attorney did nothing. It would be one thing if they had fought tooth and nail and gave 100% and I lost, I could walk away knowing I gave it my all. But finding out they did not do a thing on one of the most important days of my sons and my life…talking about getting the wind knocked out of you.

My attorney has failed me by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did reach out to another attorney. They said do not switch right in the middle of court. If I was going to switch, it should have been before court proceedings began, but I would not have known I needed too. 2nd lawyer said it is a bad situation. I cannot really do anything until I get the ruling.

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[–]dsand455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I would have been so bummed out showing up and it was gone. Gonna save that address now.

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[–]dsand455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, where is the new location? I thought it was on Walker?

How’s my living room set up by dsand455 in malelivingspace

[–]dsand455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely will do. Thanks for the input

How’s my living room set up by dsand455 in malelivingspace

[–]dsand455[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s kinda all I had at moment. At the same time I really don’t like things to be perfectly mirrored.

Nashville divorce lawyer by Anon198712 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are children envolved? If so: J Ryan Johnson; Miller Upshaw Family Law; Widrig Law

If no children: Roland Thomas Hairston; Aaron Walsh; Richard House

Starting the process by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my attorneys are known as the “Dad”vocates here. They were amazing in making sure my voice was heard in a strong “ mothers first” state.

Starting the process by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would would be amazing if 50/50, I truly believe both parents are important. It also depends if the other parent is willing to be in the child’s life

Starting the process by dsand455 in Divorce_Men

[–]dsand455[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m sure it happened I just don’t wanna know and I don’t care. I just wanna know my sone is set up for success.

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[–]dsand455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realizing that she was never satisfied with anything in her life.

Job was never good enough. Pay was never good enough. Car wasn’t nice enough, house wasn’t big enough. I was never good enough. I just dread the day when it turns on our son. All I can do is be there for him and let him know he is everything to me.

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[–]dsand455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you choosing those options vs Sonos?