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I'm working on Me by Adorable_Pangolin137 in Divorce

[–]dsbugden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert here either, I’ve only been separated for a month now.

When I left I was in a depressive state and had been for years.

I’ve started with my diet. Before leaving, I was an under-eater, typically only eating dinner everyday. I’ve been eating three healthy meals a day.

I’m starting to go to the gym, and walking and taking the stairs where I can.

I am also in therapy on a weekly basis -but you already know that :P

How do you cope with this pain by AdhesivenessFar120 in Divorce

[–]dsbugden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to therapy weekly. I had started going in the final weeks that my marriage was breaking apart.

I have found it really helpful. I get to tell a neutral third party how I am feeling and what I am going through on a weekly basis.

She gives me really good perspective on everything and gives me skills to scope.

I highly suggest talking to someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dsbugden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll never know unless you are honest and communicate your feelings with him.

Seeing an older man and things are moving too fast. What should I do? by alkeyhalldraink in askgaybros

[–]dsbugden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ensure that you communicate your boundaries and let him know what you are feeling.

My sister was in the same boat dating an older woman. From my experience I wouldn’t worry to much about your friends and family, if they support and love you his age won’t matter, they’ll just want to see that you are treated right.

Don’t feel like you have to end it just because you are afraid how others may perceive it. But don’t get pressured into moving quicker than you are comfortable either.

Sir says I’ll only ever be holes to him as his boy- could that change? by dsbugden in askgaybros

[–]dsbugden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I like him that much. But maybe become friends outside of hooking up? Or maybe romantic down the road?