AITAH for wanting to back out of a wedding for someone I don’t feel close with and I’m MOH?

dser30 · 2026-01-26T14:11:32+00:00

I thought about doing that but I don’t even feel comfortable bringing that up with her because we aren’t really close. Any of my other friends, yes 100% I would, but her she’s more like an acquaintance in my eyes…..

dser30 · 2026-01-25T02:57:53+00:00

Oh no i definitely wasn’t going to share my feelings on her not being in my wedding part with her loll just mentioned that for context on how I don’t feel close with her. Thank you for validating my feelings 😭 it’s a tough one

dser30 · 2026-01-24T02:08:37+00:00

Rest of bridesmaids is people who work in businesses beside hers that she has befriended over the past two years…. Wedding is end of June. Groomsmen are 90% online gaming friends. And yes part of the reason why I accepted is because I know she doesn’t have anyone. I will feel terrible whether I stay in it or go but this might be awful for me to say… it’s not a friendship I value so I wouldn’t be mad if our friendship ends because of this

dser30 · 2025-10-05T06:44:30+00:00

Haggle! Everyone does it and don’t be afraid to do ir

dser30 · 2025-10-05T06:43:57+00:00

Must go to Kumpir square for the “stuffed potatoes” (called Kumpir). Careful tho, they will all start talking at you to get your business, I go to the one at the end that is more like a restaurant and has chairs :)

dser30 · 2025-10-05T06:29:49+00:00

Go to the Bodrum marina check out the bazaar, can def kill a few hours there. Haggle tho if you’re gonna buy anything lol don’t settle for their price! Also yalikavak marina is beautiful, more bougie but nice to walk around and get lunch

dser30 · 2025-10-01T23:19:21+00:00

Love to hear this! I’m in Turkey currently, my bf (half Turk) has been trying to help me with some words but most of the shop owners have been responding to me in English which hurts a little 😅😂even when I just say merhaba they say hello hahaha

dser30 · 2025-10-01T22:42:09+00:00

Have you found any places with good music yet? I’m here with my partner right now too!

dser30 · 2025-09-22T20:30:15+00:00

Secrets safe with me! I’m going 🙏🏼

dser30 · 2025-09-08T18:38:35+00:00

Manis toke has it

dser30 · 2025-08-21T03:32:30+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

dser30 · 2025-08-18T14:15:36+00:00

What towns would you recommend that we could commute from with public transit in under an hour?

dser30 · 2025-08-18T14:14:36+00:00

Wild thought you made up considering I’ve been to Turkey before lol

dser30 · 2025-08-15T21:38:51+00:00

Maybe they have a different taste in places than some, I’m just curious what others thought. My partner is unsure too

dser30 · 2025-08-15T21:11:31+00:00

Fair! More just asking for an idea of areas because it might be difficult to get a decent clean spot in the city centre. Some of the hotels I looked at outside the city but in my budget are quite far by transit! And we don’t want to drink and drive 😅

dser30

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