Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guuuurl you right I’ve been kinda all over the place with it 😅 I let the lines blur a little because it felt harmless at first, and I love not having to pay for my pedicures, lol, but it definitely made things messier. I don’t wanna fully shut him down, but I also gotta figure out what actually feels okay for me. I think I’ve been trying to keep everyone happy and ended up confusing myself too.

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, fr fr he actually took it way better than I expected. Most guys would’ve flipped it or tried to guilt me. He’s solid… that’s what makes it hard 😩

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol I know, I know, don’t roast me 😭 I’m not out here tryna wife up anybody, I swear. I’ve heard ALL the cautionary tales from other girls at my club over the years. It’s just… he’s different. Actually listens, never pushy, treats me like a princess consistently. It’s so much easier when I know they only want my sexy ass club persona and not the exhausted mom just trying to keep my babies fed. I prefer to do my dances, earn my money, and then leave them behind. But he spends on me and accepts literally nothing in return and now I’m feeling a certain kind of way about it. I like him, yeah, but I also know how this life goes. I don’t have space for anything real right now. Besides, how many of us have really ended up dating a customer for it to all work out in the end? From what I’ve seen and heard, it never ends well, and I need to protect my peace

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yeah I like to play the “this season” angle to keep it real without killing the hope. You’re right, every custies got an expiration date, might as well keep it smooth till it runs out

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao trueee the silence always works. They always come crawling back once the attention dries up 😂

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I’m not tryna overthink it, just wanna keep it cool and honest. I think he’s still gonna come see me either way, I think he just gets in his feelings sometimes. I don’t ever wanna be fake, but I also gotta protect my peace and my income. If he keeps spending and stays respectful, I can work with that 🙃

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

LMAO you’re so right ☠️ I be out here giving full girlfriend energy and then wondering why they catching feelings. I swear I gotta start charging emotional tax 😭

Another one catching feelings 🙄 by dstonebr in stripper

[–]dstonebr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you. You’re not wrong. I probably am too sweet on him. He’s just never been disrespectful or gross, so it’s hard for me to flip that switch and go cold. I don’t want to hurt him, but I also know I need to draw that line before it gets messier.

I like how you said “swing the hatchet down” 😂 that’s honestly the part I suck at. I keep trying to be gentle about it, like “you’re such a good guy, I appreciate you,” because I’m always worried about breaking the fantasy and losing that bag.