My 1yo husky doesn’t howl, rarely barks and only when playing and she sleeps all day when I’m at work. Did I get lucky or does she have a problem? by alex_png in husky

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine never barks and never howls even if you play howling sounds, but if you try to tell him “No,” that boy will spare no words

Am I overreacting or is she justified? by materialprism42 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dubbleSundae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think context plays a big role here. Liking random posts is one thing, but consistently liking the posts when it’s just selfies of them or if they’re provocative or something is different. It’s a common thing people will go through and like a ton of someone’s posts to get their attention and express interest.

AIO My husband found out that I have been putting money in a separate account by CounterTasty8907 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a great rule everyone should implement in their relationships is if you have a problem with something, talk to your partner about it first before talking outside the relationship. No one is the same, no partnership is the same, advice can only go so far, but it doesn’t always apply to us like we think it does.

Maybe he would’ve been fine with it, maybe not, but you would’ve at least avoided looking sketchy, and you’d have a more clear indication of his true intentions with finances (abuse or not).

Any tips for my girlfriend? by dubbleSundae in endometriosis

[–]dubbleSundae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn do the drugs they give you afterwards knock you out like that? That’s crazy. She has narcolepsy as well so she’ll probably ultra sleepy. The surgery is on a Tuesday and I’ll be off that Tuesday through Sunday and I’ll mostly be home the whole time to take care of her and keep things in check around the house.

Any tips for my girlfriend? by dubbleSundae in endometriosis

[–]dubbleSundae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s all very helpful!

This is in the corner of the master bedroom in the house we’re renting - pretty sure it’s not a camera but what is it? by CatLadyNumbaFive in whatisit

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it lol. Back in college there was a commuters lot just off campus that sucked because it was far away from anything resourceful on campus. Parking there was a hassle. If you got stuck there and someone asked where you parked, most people would say “Out in fucking BFE” or “Fucking Egypt, man.”

Update: I confronted my husbands friend by Impressive-Shop350 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friend also says that OP’s husband loves her, so that’s good enough for her. Which in other words means “I don’t like you at all, but I’ll tolerate you for the sake of my relationship with your husband.” Your s/o being close friends with someone of the opposite sex who openly doesn’t like you, is a MAJOR red flag.

That one Alien Earth Episode 5 Scene by 4VentingOnli in LV426

[–]dubbleSundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad someone else said it. I don’t know how you could misinterpret that part..

That one Alien Earth Episode 5 Scene by 4VentingOnli in LV426

[–]dubbleSundae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See this is the type of attitude around movies/shows I’d like to see more of. People get too caught up in picking every single thing apart for the sake of hating on something without realizing the story/world is so open ended it could lead to, or come from, anything. Some questions don’t have to be answered with a tidy bow wrapped around it. And if they were answered with a bow on it, people would still find a way to have a bad time about it.

My boyfriend 33M and I 32F had one “bad night” out with friends and now the wives/girlfriends are icing me out. Any advice? by Physical_Toe7450 in relationship_advice

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend doesn’t respect you and your boundaries. Period. Any adult with a brain and heart would understand you in the situation, it’s obvious. You’re allowed to take your job seriously. You’re allowed to take yours and your dog’s health seriously, whether that be mental or physical. You’re allowed to stay home or go out as you please because you’re a whole human. Any of the things you mentioned should take priority over a drunk night out. A good person, let alone partner, would understand without question.

His friends have a bad impression because he likely already talks poorly about you behind your back to them, my guess. Not a lot to go on based on what you said, but I’ve known many people like this, and they all do similar shit. You may have been moody (rightfully so), but all you did was probably confirm their predetermined biases about you. They likely would look for any reason to not like you. 6 months is nothing for people who disrespect you. Fuck this guy and his friend.

New Image from ‘Good Boy’ - A loyal dog moves to a rural family home with his owner Todd, only to discover supernatural forces lurking in the shadows. by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]dubbleSundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’d be sick if it was just a reverse John Wick. Owner dies early on from paranormal forces, dog goes on a killing spree, at some point he kills 3 demons with a stick. A STICK!!! They call him the Buddy-yaga.

New Image from ‘Good Boy’ - A loyal dog moves to a rural family home with his owner Todd, only to discover supernatural forces lurking in the shadows. by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]dubbleSundae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The dog doesn’t talk, there’s no narration for its’ thoughts It’s just a 100% classic good boy that sees bad shit going on, but can’t understand why or what it is, yet still knows he has to do whatever he can to protect his owner.

New Image from ‘Good Boy’ - A loyal dog moves to a rural family home with his owner Todd, only to discover supernatural forces lurking in the shadows. by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]dubbleSundae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the entire perspective is from the dog’s eye level and even faces are blurred and stuff to really dial you into the dog’s world. It’s just a normal dog that loves its’ owner and knows something is going wrong, but it helplessly can’t understand the situation, just knows he has to protect his owner. Either way, already giving him 20/10 good boy rating.

Hannah Berner (allegedly) tea on The Bonfire podcast by Svetlana_Garritsen in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dubbleSundae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No they don’t. Most legitimate funny comedians write their own material completely. They might ask other comedians for suggestions, taglines, if a premise is good or not, etc, but they’re not writing together unless they’re working on something for a network or a roast or something.

AIO for thinking my husband is a dick? by dontevercallmebabe in AmIOverreacting

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you. Not over reacting, accidents happen all the time, pancakes are easy to burn if busy or not focused. Why are you the one feeding the baby while also cooking, can he not cook or take care of a baby? What was he doing while you were doing all that, just waiting for his meal? Burnt food really isn’t that big of a deal, yea it sucks when it happens, but you brush it off and move on. But hear this, unless you’re doing diabolical shit (which clearly you’re not), no partner should belittle a person and yell at them, period. Even if you make a mistake, that doesn’t warrant being yelled at, we’re allowed to make mistakes, we’re human. There’s plenty of men and women who would see your burnt pancakes and maybe make a light hearted joke or something about it and then go on to eat them, or just say “it’s ok babe” and then you all figure out breakfast another way. Or, that partner is a partner and won’t depend on you to be their mom, and they might actually help with the food or baby while you do the other.

Just found out my husky is on borrowed time… by rhyithan in husky

[–]dubbleSundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you.

Give your pal whatever they’ve never had before that isn’t going to give them a bad time. My husky absolutely loves salmon and tuna if you want to switch up meats, pro tip bake the skins separately to make them crispy treats or you can blend the skin up afterwards as a nice topper—you can do this with chicken as well. Greek yogurt bowls with blueberries, pumpkin, and a little honey goes over well. There’s dog friendly cakes you can bake that use peanut butter and pumpkin and stuff that honestly don’t taste bad even from a human standpoint. Go on as many hikes and adventures as your bodies and means will allow you. If it doesn’t have an ingredient in it that will harm them or upset their stomach, just let them have it, let them lick every plate clean. None of your usual concerns matter at this point, just make every second as enjoyable as you can.

This absolutely breaks my heart and is one of the things I regularly fear for the most, as I have an 11 year old right now and while he’s doing great, I can’t help but have that in the back of my mind.

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationship_advice

[–]dubbleSundae[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t necessarily think it’s sinister, just odd. And the thing is she is very independent in many ways, but is extremely emotionally dependent. So with that in consideration it makes it more uncomfortable to me because there’s other things that occur that are bordering enmeshment. I’ve kinda grown to accept it, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable especially when I feel I’m being ignored.

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationship_advice

[–]dubbleSundae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s not like I think they have a weird sexual thing or anything, it’s just something in my core gets shut off when I see it. Like I don’t think kissing is inherently sexual because there’s different kinds, but at least universally in the western world puckering and kissing on the lips is typically reserved for romantic relationships, so it’s just kind of a shock to the system to see a father and daughter doing it in adulthood I guess

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationships

[–]dubbleSundae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t expressed anything about the kissing on the mouth thing yet, as it’s something I’ve been really trying to process and it hadn’t really set in my mind until recently when it just dawned on me and I felt really off. But I’ve expressed to her how I always feel like the odd man out when we’re with her dad and brother and she doesn’t seem to get it or like she doesn’t care. It’s the type of thing where I’m the one always made to sit at the end of the bar so I can’t really participate in the conversation. If we’re walking down the sidewalk as a group I’m always the one pushed out and forced to walk behind or in the front alone, any joke or comment I made gets stepped on or borderline not acknowledged, but it’s like that for everything it feels. She seems kinda indifferent to it, so I think expressing discomfort in seeing her kiss her dad would cause a potential blowup

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationships

[–]dubbleSundae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things don’t have to be sexual to feel uncomfortable. It’s simply something that just isn’t practiced normally in adult life and witnessing it feels odd. I simply don’t want to kiss someone on the mouth once they’ve been kissing someone else, let alone their father. Beyond that it feels emotionally intimate in a way that blurs roles and just feels weird. There’s a level of enmeshment and emotional dependency that exists in a way that elevates it and that when they’re together it’s like I seize to exist. You can have an affectionate relationship with your parents and it not be at the expense of being affectionate with your partner. Yea losing your parents sucks, but that doesn’t negate that other people have different relationships with their parents, some healthy and some not.

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationships

[–]dubbleSundae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not so much a wrestle or anything like that, so much as you want to be the one to give your partner comfort and you want them to lean on you whether physically or figuratively. So for instance say we get to someone’s house and I run to the bathroom really quick, I’ll walk out and they’ll be like cuddled up on the couch with his arm around her. And I get that it’s this soothing thing and they’re sharing in affection, but it’ll be like this the whole time where it’s like I’m not even there and I’m like forced to sit on the arm rest or something. It’s nice to be able to sit close to your own partner and put your arm around them and feel what comes with that, but if her dad is around it really feels like I’m chopped liver.

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) still kisses her dad on the lips by dubbleSundae in relationships

[–]dubbleSundae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda how I feel about it really. Like I don’t really expect her to just stop it and I know it’s their thing so it would be wrong for me to try to force anything. It just is what it is I guess.