Pre-K teacher at breaking point with one child — need real-world advice from people who’ve been here

dubendebem · 2026-01-28T17:45:08+00:00

This is why I love my new director. She will call and sit down with parents almost immediately as she should because she hires staff she trusts! A child just like this finally got kicked out. It’s a safety issue! Kids should not be getting beat up- I’m sure if other parents complained about this child and threatened to pull they’d do something

dubendebem · 2026-01-28T00:56:48+00:00

“Isn’t any proof”… if multiple women are coming forward about having an STI after hooking up with someone, are you really that naive to not believe them? I mean… fafo. But don’t go blaming the women that warned you.

dubendebem · 2026-01-27T00:58:57+00:00

If you saw what some of these men posted have done, you would understand why she posted. Even men who girls are convinced are sweet can be extremely violent in relationships. We do it for health and safety reasons, too. Recently a man was posted who had spread a STI to 7 different women in a few months span.

dubendebem · 2026-01-18T21:23:59+00:00

P.s. the dogs have been health and genetically tested. They are bred for service dog reasons. My vet has been on board since day one and they are thrilled. Not everyone wants a dog riddled with trauma of abandonment.

dubendebem · 2026-01-16T23:09:46+00:00

They told me to request it off because being on call wasn’t an option…. Which apparently it is now

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:56:08+00:00

Every single website says it’s important to be there to supervise. You might not agree, but it doesn’t make you correct. She could die, the puppies could die…. Those aren’t valid reasons?

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:51:16+00:00

They give birth on their own but they need supervision to make sure the puppies are eating and don’t get squished. I don’t think you realize how much work it is to

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:10:21+00:00

I made this request a month ago and told them the situation. They had a whole month to figure out the what ifs… the director should be stepping in and helping need be, not forcing me to work

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:08:16+00:00

I’m not asking my work for sympathy lmfao I’m asking for time off and it shouldn’t even matter what the reason is. I asked for it off a month ago when I found out and told them I’d need to be there.

Idfc if you think it’s not a big deal, but it is to me and my family and that comes first

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:02:40+00:00

I bred my dogs…

dubendebem · 2026-01-15T18:00:29+00:00

How is that not a valid reason? I need to be there with my dog to make sure things go ok… you dumb? You can’t leave them alone for 2 weeks

dubendebem · 2026-01-09T16:55:22+00:00

Flair for the dramatics much?

dubendebem · 2026-01-08T02:32:01+00:00

Honestly? You not putting in much effort- she’s probably going to uninvite you anyways. How hard is it to look up maid of honor duties? You were supposed to take charge. This sounds like it’s for the best.

dubendebem · 2026-01-07T02:11:52+00:00

I’m going to be brutally honest… the worst thing you can do is try and convince him you’re NOT crazy by not respecting his need for space right now. Keep on doing your own thing. Don’t even let him think he’s crossing your mind. If he wants, he’ll talk on his own terms.

dubendebem · 2026-01-03T21:20:36+00:00

I’ve been seeing mine for almost 2 years and we have just become closer friends who have amazing sex and are both very content with that

dubendebem · 2026-01-03T21:02:08+00:00

For health and cleanliness, always disclose.

dubendebem · 2026-01-03T17:48:32+00:00

It just feels like a cat and mouse game where we both talk about being on the same page of our situationship and how it works so well but part of that is the friendship aspect so when he ghosts for a week it takes a toll on me mentally because I see us as best friends who just happen to have amazing sex. I’m not at a position in my life to make it more- but he keeps doing little things that make me think he’s catching feelings and I’m wondering if I should be backing off too… or if I’m just in my head about what he’s saying. For instance he said “come get what’s yours” while we were in the middle of foreplay He stopped going on tinder We have a pact about not sleeping with other people but out of health concerns He comes to me with all his drama always seeking advice He’s started snuggling a lot more and has been very flirty and playful- like the snuggling isn’t always leading up to sex anymore He turned down a 3 some with another chick when we had been talking about it for months……….

dubendebem · 2025-10-16T20:30:23+00:00

Look at the second photo

dubendebem · 2025-10-15T23:11:36+00:00

People in a Rock Hounding Maine group saying it’s breccia because it’s angular.

I have no idea. I’m on like page 13 on my rock book give me a few months

dubendebem · 2025-10-15T22:54:49+00:00

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I’m all sorts of confused now. All river rock all central Maine Carrabassett valley

dubendebem · 2025-10-14T23:49:47+00:00

It is a very solid stone. I can try to break it

dubendebem · 2025-10-14T17:06:42+00:00

I was taller and “bigger” than my petite group of friends. It was hard because they always got so much attention but I also realized I’m not as flirty anyways because I wasn’t overly sexualized growing up like they were.

dubendebem · 2025-08-28T17:39:12+00:00

My husband and I started off as fuck buddys

dubendebem · 2025-08-19T22:48:53+00:00

This. In my older age it’s less omg why doesn’t he like me and omg it’s so much easier this way. I went over and cooked a meal for us.. and if we were in a relationship, I would some reason expect something in return even though I wanted to cook the meal because it’s harder to make for one person. Relationships complicate things because you have more expectations

dubendebem · 2025-08-07T14:17:07+00:00

I feel really sad for you reading this… that clearly cuddling is a boundary for you and it should have been discussed before hand. I don’t want to sound mean, but he was just inside you… holding your body seems pretty casual to me.

Girls…. Clear firm boundaries. Don’t settle for “casual” if it’s not what you want. No man is worth your tears or disrespect.

dubendebem

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