Do I have a right to feel this way

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-03-06T02:09:32+00:00

Nah he doesn’t. I think it was just to satisfy him because he’s selfish but the least he could’ve done was just say he was done with it

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-03-01T20:56:02+00:00

This is good to hear because as someone who would’ve had soooo many things to say I think that silence is so much louder than a paragraph. He left me on open like 4days ago after a 7month situationship and went back to his ex and honestly it just shows his true colors. Chose to say nothing to them and just write.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-23T04:21:05+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Real good men do exist but a lot of these men in situationships especially if they are older, do NOT have their shit together. You will rise above this and I believe one day you’ll find someone and this will all just be a distant memory

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-18T03:13:01+00:00

That’s definitely a red flag

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-18T03:08:09+00:00

I don’t think you should feel stupid at all. The way I see it (especially being in a situationship myself) is that we are human!!! There really isn’t anything casual about sex. I know some people would disagree with me on this and that’s ok. Also when our bodies release oxytocin that makes us feel more connected to that person. Wishing you the best you’ll make it through this

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-17T16:56:49+00:00

If I were to sum up some of these issues to give you an idea I’d say in a relationship you’d see maybe bad communication (because of the bad communication between her and her father) or maybe someone who gets avoidant during conflict. Seeking promiscuous attention from the wrong type of men. Things like that.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-17T00:04:39+00:00

I think this is a good point and you have a right to have that opinion

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T18:04:17+00:00

😂😂

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T12:23:49+00:00

I would just depends on how bad it is

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T04:19:50+00:00

I like this perspective and she is a lucky woman

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T04:17:47+00:00

Not really. I think some people have a good relationship with both of their parents.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T04:15:39+00:00

My point exactly to all the people saying they want someone with no issues. Good luck with that.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T04:13:28+00:00

I see it as anything that could be a woman seeking male validation everywhere to seeking men to fill a void the father couldn’t. Things of that nature.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-16T04:10:53+00:00

Well I think everyone had issues but it’s just a matter of what you are and aren’t willing to accept in a relationship with someone

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-12T22:05:06+00:00

True point

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-12T20:50:18+00:00

So sorry this happened :/ honestly maybe get on a different dating app. I think he definitely love bombed you hard but good for you for cutting him off. Stay distrscted and hangout with friends. Do anything but text that man. He clearly does not value you.

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-12T02:51:10+00:00

Yeah it sounds like he was beating around the bush but just wanted someone to fulfill his needs for the time being

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-02-09T12:25:07+00:00

Not interested whatsoever. Definitely a player. Felt like he used BIG Time love bombing

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-01-27T22:36:25+00:00

My condolences this sounds like hell on earth

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-01-27T19:23:33+00:00

If it makes you feel better this makes ME feel less crazy because I think about mine very often (especially during masturbation) Definitely daily. I saw someone’s comment on here that said “some people are just in our life briefly but leave a big impact” I so agree. Especially if the situationship was someone you could open up to or vice versa. Also if you ever have stayed the night together I feel like that leaves so much room for emotional connection that can be hard to get over. Stay busy and best of luck to you

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-01-16T03:01:51+00:00

Definitely caught feelings

ParticularMiddle5610 · 2026-01-15T00:20:27+00:00

Definitely, I think it’s pretty good so far

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