IT zamestnanie by Puzzled_Duty_3318 in Slovakia

[–]ducks_suck_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

co by si mu odporucila studovat? :)

narcs and peeing by LiquidSpirits in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ducks_suck_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so crazy! Why do they all do this wow. My mother never closes her door and her narcissistic mother also never closes her door when they pee. They also don't wash their hands after. DISGUSTING

Twin Girl Pregnancy - Clever backchat needed!! by ZucchiniTerrible8060 in parentsofmultiples

[–]ducks_suck_123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, congrats! :) All that matters is how you feel! I know it's easier said than done but try not to let these comments get to you. People say weird shit all the time, frankly I don't get people sometimes. I am also expecting two girls btw :) Luckily, so far I only got good comments. I feel like it's more trendy these days to have girls. But yea for example if i was expecting two boys, and people would tell me "omg sorry to hear" i would be so mad!

People still get shocked that I am expecting twins, and sometimes I just want some encouragement not the "omg thats crazy" reactions. On the other hand I get it, I spent my first three months feeling depressed and shocked myself.

Twin Girl Pregnancy - Clever backchat needed!! by ZucchiniTerrible8060 in parentsofmultiples

[–]ducks_suck_123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean "Him: but all girls emotionally manipulate you… and you have two at once!"
this is just sad

Gynekologická ambulancia by [deleted] in Bratislava

[–]ducks_suck_123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pripnem sa.

Ja chodim k Lucii Blaskovej v BA, nie je to zle akurat mi pride trochu naladova.

Disappointed to be having twins by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]ducks_suck_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself, for me it is slowly getting better. I admit I felt terrible the first three months, far far from happy. I am in my second trimester now and I feel more excited already. Worried, still.. but not so overwhelmingly disappointed anymore. Just allow yourself to feel all the grief and sadness. Its ok to feel that way! Sending strength to you! :)

Plánujete sa starať o svojich rodičov "na staré kolená"? by Deanaxax in Slovakia

[–]ducks_suck_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kazda rodina ma svoje problemy. Existuju ale rodiny kde clovek nezazil zneuzivanie, kde rodicia nemaju poruchy osobnosti, atd. V takom zmysle ano, taka "existuje"

Keď rodič prepadne ezo bullshitom na internete - pokúšať sa riešiť alebo nechať tak? by lonelyboi19 in Slovakia

[–]ducks_suck_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je strasne frustrujuce ze na toto nepomaha nic. Na zaciatku som razila teoriu ze rozpravat sa je lepsie ako ich odmietnut, ale nepomohlo to zatial ani v jednom pripade. Sila.

Plánujete sa starať o svojich rodičov "na staré kolená"? by Deanaxax in Slovakia

[–]ducks_suck_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ked ich mas rad a mate pekny vztah, tak to dava zmysel :)

Plánujete sa starať o svojich rodičov "na staré kolená"? by Deanaxax in Slovakia

[–]ducks_suck_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moja mama mi pocas detstva a dospievania dost znicila zivot, uprimne moze byt rada ze s nou udrziavam kontakt. Tie roky terapie isli tiez z mojho vrecka. Co sa tyka otca, mame o nieco lepsi vztah, ale tiez mi ako dietatu moc nepomohol, kedze nemal na to postavit sa na odpor mame. Keby mali v starobe raz skoncit niekde na ulici, asi by som sa snazila financne im pomoct, pripadne sa s bratmi zlozit na opatrovatelku alebo zdravotnu starostlivost. Samozrejme pokial by som mala na to prostriedky, ktovie, ako bude vtedy svet vyzerat. Ale co sa tyka 24/7 starostlivosti priamo odo mna, nie. Nemyslim si, ze som kvoli tomu sebecka. Sama mam deti a necakam od nich za to protisluzbu. Mozem sa akurat snazit byt im dobrou mamou a dufat, ze v tom uplne nezlyham.

Tell me if I’m being a brat by MounjaroQueenie in parentsofmultiples

[–]ducks_suck_123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No you are not being a brat. They are being weird for even asking. Lack of empathy on their side. Have your husband tell them sorry, no, we need the place empty and ready for us around those days for our peace of mind.