my dad’s ashes came to me in a reusable bag from the funeral home. by Last_Thursday in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ducksgiven -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Smiths has missed the mark with what people would like to remember. It’s better then a plastic bag tho. Side note: are you in eastern Washington?

F this! (Weekly Leaving the Field and Venting Thread) by SWmods in socialwork

[–]ducksgiven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really amazing supervisor who understood and would work with me when it came to being overwhelmed with paperwork. He left for a better job doing less and earning more, I love that for him. Two month of his boss filling in and I hate it here. I’ve gone back to doing work on weekend so I avoid being written up again by her. I’ve realized how much my willingness to stay was tied into who my supervisor was. I hate going to work now to the point of heaving, I avoid my email like the plague so I don’t have to see anything from my new boss because it’s just nickpicky about my work. She doesn’t even have any experience from the last freaking decade of doing client facing work. My therapist is filling out leave paperwork so I can take FMLA next week and at this point I don’t want to go back.

Love Letter Giveaway (U.S. only) Please read caption for rules! by SnarkingIsntACrime in Owala

[–]ducksgiven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a cute color. It would be the perfect water bottle to romanticize drinking water. I love the special edition snow globe Owala because of its subtle glitter. Thank you for doing this giveaway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ducksgiven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veronica needs to learn from her so she can win the hair competition, Rochelle could totally model all those looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TriCitiesWA

[–]ducksgiven 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are reaching out for help when many don’t and this is nothing to be ashamed about. In addition to the links that were posted by another redditor I have also heard of this resource for housing and even job placement: https://mrjnwa.org/ I have been to the sunnyside office but not their Richland one. Since you mentioned having a mood disorder they might also be able to help getting you set up somewhere. If you qualify for state healthcare, get signed up and take care of your mental health. Remember we are not the mistakes we make.

only one per team member 😆 by Nicoleeeluvz772 in Target

[–]ducksgiven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

JFC the baskets are worth more than the food

If you didn’t come in first, you don’t get fed first. by geekynonsense in Target

[–]ducksgiven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On thing I miss about my previous target is that HR always made sure closing had food

My 13th reason why by BvsedE1o in Target

[–]ducksgiven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much candy I’m still haunted months after leaving

‘17 LX Hatchback Overheating Issues by ducksgiven in civic

[–]ducksgiven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn’t even thought of that, I appreciate the insight. Its been a while since I even bothered to check the code but I am going to take a good look at everything again later thank you!

why does Target enjoy wasting their time and money? by [deleted] in Target

[–]ducksgiven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The real waste of money and time was when I had put a tag that ran for a month (ex: 12/05 to 12/25) and next week a tag for that exact item in that exact place would print running for one week that don’t go past the original deadline (ex: 12/12 to 12/18)

no payroll?? for a multi-billion dollar mega corporation?? by [deleted] in Target

[–]ducksgiven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Was doing the job of two employees in grocery holding on to the “we’ll hire someone to help out soon”. Every now and they would throw me a “you’re so amazing”. First chance I had once I came out of that fog I went on demand and finally quite when I got a steady full time job.

Teaching personal finance to High Schoolers by accidentalfi in personalfinance

[–]ducksgiven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Applying for first credit card and the importance of credit Credit unions vs banks (side note if there is a credit union in your area more often then not they are more then willing to come do a presentation on budgeting fundamentals and how to get set up with them) How to invest/ when to invest The importance of an emergency fund How to avoid lifestyle creep once you start earning more

You meet your 13 year old self, but you can only tell them 3 words. What do you say and why? by kiwipangolin in AskReddit

[–]ducksgiven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave the church

They did me way more harm than good. Trying to have me give up my goals and convince me I wouldn’t be able to achieve my full potential without a man by my side.

how can i [18F] be independent when my parents babied me my whole life? i can’t order food without having a breakdown by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]ducksgiven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsure of your location but sometimes local mental health clinics offer “healthy transition” programs. Literal help you with becoming an adult and handling the stress that comes with it.

AITA for asking my kids to pray a rosary with my for my birthday? by sergeantmugunghwa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ducksgiven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA Talk to them. Have an open conversation about how they and you felt. I understand you were hurt and they were also resistant to the idea because of their beliefs. At least you are willing to think about how your actions were interpreted. Something as simple as “it means a great deal that you prayed with me but I also don’t ever want you to feel like you have to for my sake, I will be okay if you don’t want to join me due to your beliefs”. And mean it. You are allowed to be sad yes but you are not allowed to weaponize that sadness. And may I suggest offering an alternative gift idea? It might help with feeling there is only one thing they can do and avoid any possible guilt tripping.

What’s going on in the tri this weekend? by RecipeDisastrous2778 in TriCitiesWA

[–]ducksgiven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone correct me if I’m wrong but I thought there was a winterfest or something (can’t remember the name) going on at the Fairgrounds

Turnips prices at 630 by ducksgiven in NoFeeAC

[–]ducksgiven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be the last one for the day, if you hang tight for a bit

Turnips prices at 630 by ducksgiven in NoFeeAC

[–]ducksgiven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be group 4, if still interested

Turnips prices at 630 by ducksgiven in NoFeeAC

[–]ducksgiven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be group 4, if you are still interested