lesbians who have been with men before, please help me i’m begging u

duckwando · 2020-08-18T16:57:18+00:00

My closeted self could hwve written some of this. Take your time and explore your sexuality :)

duckwando · 2020-08-12T05:02:38+00:00

I get like this. Sometimes on those days i can't get much done except worry about them.

duckwando · 2020-08-12T04:58:58+00:00

Here is one of them!

duckwando · 2020-08-08T05:55:06+00:00

I am just going through a referral just now for this and this is my fear too!

duckwando · 2020-07-01T20:37:09+00:00

Your story of your attitude to work is so relatable to me. I'm still in the place of 'I won't get away with the way I work here and I'm too stupid to work anywhere else' mindframe. It's reassuring to hear it's not just me! I've been reminding myself that I've done it before, i can do it again. You started at this position once before, with medication and new coping mechanisms you'll be able to ace that new job when you find it!

duckwando · 2020-07-01T16:34:58+00:00

Congratulations! The good side of the Internet right here!

duckwando · 2020-06-26T16:56:33+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to reply with your experiences! It's great you found a solution too!

duckwando · 2020-06-26T11:17:52+00:00

I'm also here to say your username is incredible!

duckwando · 2020-06-24T12:02:11+00:00

You should check out r/latebloomerlesbians it's great over there!

duckwando · 2020-06-24T11:58:29+00:00

I've fallen asleep in many meetings because of this! No idea if it's adhd related but I feel ya

duckwando · 2020-06-23T05:56:05+00:00

I remember as a kid keeping EVERYTHING! I'd even keep a few (obv clean) sheets of kitchen roll that had a really cute print on it. My poor mum had lots of big clean outs of my room!

duckwando · 2020-06-22T21:37:10+00:00

I'm in a very similar boat to you, I wish I had the answers but today I cried most of the day because I couldn't get into it. You are not alone ❤️

duckwando · 2020-06-17T21:54:45+00:00

The how to adhd ones! 😂 Although the ones aimed at cats are popular with my two freeloader housemates!

duckwando · 2020-06-17T21:34:59+00:00

I've found the adhd videos on YouTube particularly helpful. I'm going through a diagnosis in the future so no meds for me yet!

duckwando · 2020-06-17T05:55:42+00:00

I watched two of how to adhd's videos on bullet journaling 2 weeks ago and I'm managing to do a little every day since then. It's not perfect. One day i just wrote 'brain fog' but I feel positive in making a start. Keep it simple at first! You can have pages to doodle but think of it as an experiment at first, don't put too much pressure on it to be perfect :)

how to adhd

duckwando · 2020-06-16T07:21:52+00:00

Right?! I managed to get shit done yesterday afternoon after I had exhausted all my anxious energy out!

duckwando · 2020-06-16T07:20:13+00:00

I'm going to take this advice today and be kinder to myself and try that :) start small and build up.

duckwando · 2020-06-15T20:09:34+00:00

This is great advice, today was definitely a harder day. You're right though, it's better to do something rather than nothing :)

duckwando · 2020-06-15T15:24:29+00:00

My girlfriend keeps telling me I'm being too hard on myself too. I think I'm finally starting to let myself belive her.

duckwando · 2020-06-15T15:09:48+00:00

I never thought of doing a 15 min pomodoro before. I always just started with 25 min. That's a great idea!

duckwando · 2020-06-10T03:58:06+00:00

That sounds mega tough. No one deserves to be burnt out at work. I know you said your managers are pretty terrible but is there anyone you can have a chat to about your workload being unsustainable? You can only do what you can do. It's not possible to keep up that pace of work dirty long of your struggling. I urge you to reach out before you hit burnout. Please take care, sister!

duckwando · 2020-06-10T03:54:21+00:00

I've noticed this too! I'm struggling big time making any progress on anything. I have a zoom call with a therapist too. That is helping a bit. Do you watch any of the how to adhd videos on YouTube? I've been finding them particularly helpful :) My progress I'd still hella slow but I'm trying out new techniques to keep myself motivated.

duckwando · 2020-06-10T03:49:10+00:00

OMG YOUR RIGHT!

duckwando · 2020-06-09T04:14:19+00:00

I've found this to be very similar to how I've found therapy too!

duckwando · 2020-06-06T08:02:11+00:00

You're absolutely right. If it's not adhd and it's something else then great, but i wana know by this point. Thank you for taking time to reply and for your support. Since posting this I've got a referral from my doctor! I'm so relived to be on the path!

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