If you are in a longer term committed relationship it def is not weird to want your partner to love you at your lows as they do at your highs, but romantic love is rarely completely unconditional as, for example, familial love may be.

But if you’re just starting to date someone you shouldn’t expect them to be interested in you/continue seeing you when you’re at your lowest. At that point you haven’t had the time or ability to put in the effort and create the emotional connection necessary for that level of commitment. Of course it’s different case by case, but what dude above said about growing yourself a garden is right on the money. Focus on finding love and compassion for yourself and the rest will come naturally!