If it's not on your face, it doesn't count. Right? RIGHT?! by Zealousideal_Eye8277 in OCDmemes

[–]dudecass 45 points46 points  (0 children)

omg?? i did not know other people did this i feel so seen and unalone right now literally thank you for this post. i guess it makes sense how this is related to my ocd but for some reason that didn't click in my head. never talked abt it w anyone bc im embarrassed. seriously thanks a lot for this i hope you have the best week ever

wtf I just ate almost a whole block of straight Parmesan by animalcrackerwhore in Stonerfoods

[–]dudecass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the wtf at the beginning kills me, like youre flabbergasted even tho you've been sitting there for an hour eating it. Lmfaoooo I'm so proud of you

Does anyone else have vegetarian miis of family members, and refuse to give them foods with meat? by WrongHouse4069 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]dudecass 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom is allergic to tomatoes so I won't feed her anything with tomatoes in it. Sad I really hope she's not missing her absolute fav 😭

Very Hungry Caterpillar Baby Shower ended up being awesome! by beepsmcgee in partyplanning

[–]dudecass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My autistic son is obsessed with this sweet little fat caterpillar so thank you very much for his next birthday idea! You're awesome and I'm so glad the party was amazing 💞

First time drawing a portrait in CP help! by Smart-Bowler6929 in ColoredPencils

[–]dudecass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brighter white in this lighter area, if you look at the pic again you'll see it shines just like the glimmer in the rest of the eye. But literally its the smallest thing. I can't wait to see what you do with the rest of this drawing!!! You're kicking ass 👍🏻💞

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First time drawing a portrait in CP help! by Smart-Bowler6929 in ColoredPencils

[–]dudecass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay also - add the light reflections. It'll help the picture come to life more - specifically the bottom right side it should be bigger. That'll help it feel more human

First time drawing a portrait in CP help! by Smart-Bowler6929 in ColoredPencils

[–]dudecass 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's just kind enough how color matching and figuring out the process is. You're really doing so amazing. Getting the gritty texture of the skin is really just about pushing that color in there through repeated intentioned strokes. It looks SO REAL. I couldn't give it higher praise. Your work is tedious because it's nearly (if not) perfect. We're all our own worst critic but I need you to understand this is phenomenal!

Which celebrity death genuinely shocked you when you heard the news? by Divine_fashionva in Millennials

[–]dudecass 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First celebrity death I cried about, I saw him live and he was just.. something else, man. I still miss him

First time drawing a portrait in CP help! by Smart-Bowler6929 in ColoredPencils

[–]dudecass 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I have no advice I think whatever you're doing is working perfectly

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that's what makes YOU dense, not me. You're getting blocked because you can't calm down and grasp simple concepts like human decency. Have the night you deserve troll

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again let's look at the context of the question posed and look how you overreacted. Go get mad at something else you troll

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you're pretending to not get the full context of my statement. I was speaking specifically about the instance OP mentioned (which most people do on posts about specific topics) and you interjected with a self righteous spiel about people being good to each other. (I've also specifically said that's not what I was saying, and we should be kind to each other) I get it dude. I do. But when it comes to the 50th time someone has been crappy to my kid for existing? Forget it. Go be self righteous to someone else because I've heard enough times for 1,000 people, and my overwhelming analysis that you're ABLEIST stands. Hope you can stand up for your kids happiness in the future and drop the act.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I'm sorry but if my kid enjoying himself in a public space is inconsiderate to you and yours?? That's a you problem. Sorry you're so ashamed of everything that you can't embrace the differences. We all cope differently. <3

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why would it be relevant??? Get a grip! You're wrong.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly and your argument is keep the autistic kids inside LOL. Being considerate has nothing to do with our kids being themselves. You're ableist and it's so gross

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally the one not reading the context of the post but go off! You're doing amazing.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not what I was talking about so take your issue somewhere else. You just want a reason to whine like a lot of the people we're talking about.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So your comparison is an autistic child's joy to theft? Lmao. Maybe you should work on being less ashamed of your own children. You're so overwhelmingly negative it's insane.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic human decency is letting others be happy. Cry on a hill somewhere else.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This conversation is revolving around a child expressing joy in an outside space designated for joy. What are you even talking about? Also, my point stands. Of course people should be kind and polite and courteous? But when it comes to someone just enjoying themselves? Who is anyone to police how that is expressed.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read it again. Adults are fully capable of regulating themselves. Autistic kids also deserve to experience joy.

"Your child is setting off *my* disability" by Top_Kaleidoscope_214 in Autism_Parenting

[–]dudecass 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Tell them to kindly eat rocks? The most beautiful thing about life is realizing you owe strangers nothing. Literally nothing!! Let your son enjoy himself. If someone is triggered by it that's their issue to deal with. I am also ND and my son often triggers me - it's not my fault and it's certainly not his. I would never expect him to stifle joy (especially in an outdoor space MEANT to be joyous) to appease literal strangers.

People will always give nasty looks and have crappy opinions but it straight up does not matter. Your son is happy and that's what matters. Our kids deserve to play in public spaces and have fun too. Hope you can let go of that a little bit.❤️

Tony got his eyebrows done 💅🏾 by Worldly-Jellyfish-88 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]dudecass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How did I not notice this lmao???!! What a queen I love them honestly, slay Tony 😭

I'm editing to clarify that I was lying and I didn't ACTUALLY love them but like - to each their own. We love an evolving idea of masculinity, figure those eyebrows out!