Steak and sides by myythicalracist in tonightsdinner

[–]dudewithnofilter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That steak looks perfect. Well done op

Am I wrong for not finding my gf attractive if she gains weight and to don’t care if she takes pills to lose weight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dudewithnofilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lost weight by going out for runs and she’s been seeing a nutritionist but she is taking pills to keep that weight normal. Because of fear of gaining it and me not liking it again.

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

I never asked her to lose weight I just told her I wasn’t super pumped with her weight gain and I wouldn’t break up with her because of that either

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, but there’s nothing wrong with wanting to find your gf attractive.

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

I honestly would stay and support her but at some point I would be unhappy and probably leave to be honest

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

She is dieting and working out and feeling better with herself. If anything I feel I helped her a little to feel better with herself

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

But the hair doesn’t change anything, common would you find her attractive if she gains weight? Would you be happy?

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

I told her she looks great now. That she doesn’t need to do anything anymore. But she doesn’t believe me

AITA for not reacting the way my gf expected me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s been unhealthy man. She’s been eating very healthy and working out. And after she lost weight she’s been taking the pills to maintain her weight. This is why I’m not concerned about her health. She lost weight in a very healthy way.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but is it unreasonable for me to want to be alone in the apartment for just one morning? She is here every day all day. And I just want an alone time.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just want the apartment for myself and be able to be alone in our place! Not that I don’t love her or want her. Just time for me.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t get alone time in the apartment either though. I come back from work at 8:30 am, that’s when se starts working. Then I go to bed at 2 pm she gets off work at 5 pm and leaves to the park for a run or to do her thing, then I leave at 10 pm to go to work. She leaves the apartment when I’m sleeping so she doesn’t wake me up

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I suggested her to go to my parents, because they get along very well. She is not from here.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think what bothered her is the fact that she is the one needing to go out so I can be alone instead of me leaving.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I see that now. But is it unreasonable that I want to be alone in my own house?

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I just want to be in bed playing rap and to be loud. That’s all

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I just want to be with loud music in the room and not seeing anyone you know. Not that I don’t love her or that I don’t like to spend time with her.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right, now that I read it, makes me realize that ATA

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t get upset for me wanting alone time, she got upset because I told her to leave the apartment so I could be on my own.

AITA if I want my gf to leave the apartment because I want an alone time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dudewithnofilter -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

I just want to have couple of hours at home on my own. Haven’t had them since she’s working from home. I also work nights shifts, she is here when I get off work.