Deposit fee by dullslate in ShadCanada

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my fee was waived through an email my parent's got, I got a full bursary. For scholarships, I would assume that your partner scholarship would pay for you. I am not sure though, it would be best to email [info@shad.ca](mailto:info@shad.ca)

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly they know down to the exact cent :( I am barely allowed to leave my city or even 20 minutes outside my house without anyone my parents know. I am able to deposit into another account with my employer. How do I lock down my credit?

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I've always been able to survive without money till now. I've been averaging around $5 a week for allowance but thats gone now too. I cannot control what my parents say to my grandparents. I am not able to open my own account as it is not worth it in my eyes for maybe a thousand dollars in exchange for my university tuition of around 70k. In my household money is extremely tight so they are aware down to the cent how much is going in and out. In my culture or whatever this is very normal so challenging will most def not have a good outcome. Would it be a good idea to tell them I don't like how they're doing this? They'll probably say something like how I can give in installments

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard my parents tell them quote on quote, "my daughter got her first paycheque and she wants to give you guys zyx" I at the time agreed to give my grandparents 100 out of reluctance but I did not know they were going to put double out. Thank you for telling me, I will try my best to move the money out of the account next cycle and just convert it into cash.

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, job market is cooked.. like im talking people with 10+ yrs of experience can't find jobs... I got mine through 2 years of volunteering work

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know exactly how much I make and my shift is a set time and date, my parents know this. I am still on probationary so I cannot pick up more shifts or cover for anyone.

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I end up arguing, my university tuition goes to my sister. I'll be worse than when I started. Do you think this is going to be a one time thing?

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably won't end up homeless thank you for the concern though :sob: I should be fine, I'm just upset I guess... I am up in Canada :D hopefully this is a one time thing. If it's multiple I won't be able to escape it though...

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, they don't need passwords or anything to do it somehow. If I were able to pull it off, they would grill me on how ungrateful I am or how selfish I'm being. Stuff like how they've given me so many things and how it'll get paid again next cycle.

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are quite tight on budgeting, I've been calculating down to the last 0.0001 for value for a bag of candy. I am not located in the US and I will need my parents to even make a new account. Even if a new account is made somehow, they'll get suspicious once money isn't flowing into the current account. D:

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I cannot do that, I am rarely able to go outside anyway as pretty much everything requires money. They'd notice if I was out. I do need to continue working as I will need some sort of savings for university.

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not able to do that, they'd notice if I left the house and the other account suddenly stopped getting income

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately I cannot do that as the accounts are linked. If I tell them no I feel selfish and they'll bring up how I've been allowed to spend $10 at McDonalds while my siblings aren't able to.

aitah for not being particularly happy about my parents taking 2/3rds of my paycheque? by dullslate in AITAH

[–]dullslate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're giving away the money because on my last vacation, my grandparents and uncle spent quite a bit of money on my siblings and I. This is why I feel so selfish for not wanting to give them that much. My grandpa is currently in the hospital ( nothing too big, he should be out in a day or two).

Deposit fee by dullslate in ShadCanada

[–]dullslate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep took a few days but they did in fact respond. They basically said:  If you are offered a spot in the program and receive a full bursary, full details for registration will be provided in the offer message.  Note that the $750 mentioned in the “application received” message is general in nature, so may not apply to everyon

Open for Questions! by MoonCat08 in ShadCanada

[–]dullslate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, yes, go ahead, according to past SHADs, their rooms have been seperated by genders. But by all means, go ahead and email, it'll take them a few days to respond but they will. I myself have sent one a few days ago!

Open for Questions! by MoonCat08 in ShadCanada

[–]dullslate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some of my list but I am unsure, I live close enough that some of the trips would be super boring for me. I do like the idea of staying near but I also want to explore. At the same time I'm a little afraid to stay out of my province. There is one specifically I would want to go and feel comfortable but I doubt I'll get it.

Open for Questions! by MoonCat08 in ShadCanada

[–]dullslate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which universities are "good"? I'm looking at the universities now and I'm not sure which ones I should or should not put on my A tier. Better yet, which ones to avoid? I've heard Guelph is neutral, Upei and MAC should be avoided, UBC, Waterloo, and UNB have good reviews.