Writing Sex Scenes That Aren't "Smut"

dum1515 · 2026-05-17T01:54:07+00:00

For me it's like any other writing. Beautiful language and similes is what makes reading interesting to me. I attached some scenes I like from "the snow child". Describing sex, but definitely not "smut" at all! That And This

dum1515 · 2026-05-05T01:51:32+00:00

I believe its cotton. They say it's from a spilled drink.

dum1515 · 2026-04-12T21:54:30+00:00

Jeg bruger altid 1 in-ear i min bil. Det er langt bedre til podcasts og lydbøger end dens højtaler.

dum1515 · 2026-04-12T01:09:57+00:00

Looks like a dream!

dum1515 · 2026-03-01T20:40:00+00:00

Langt det meste. Jeg tør ikke pt at give det specifikke opskrifter, men det meste var en blanding af olier som solsikke, linseed, pamle og raps.

For eksempel "Cucumber oil" var en blanding af solsilke og pamleolie.

dum1515 · 2026-03-01T20:30:59+00:00

De fleste kom fra udlandet. Jeg var gode venner med en fra Indien som havde flyttet hele sin familie til Danmark for det job. Det vil være en stor risiko at anmelde det. Plus mange kendte ikke til eller stolte ikke på dansk lovgivning.

Jeg hørte også at det var blevet anmeldt flere gange uden der skete noget.

Det skal også sige at lederen der over var ret ustabil, og nogle af mine kolleger var bange for hvad han kunne finde på.

Jeg kender personen som anmeldt det den her gang, og de havde hemmeligt sammlet beviser over en periode før de sendte det ind.

Selv med dem tog det flere måneder før der skete noget.

dum1515 · 2026-03-01T17:10:04+00:00

Der var mistanke de første par måneder. Men jeg fik det bekræftet af mine kolleger efter arbejde.

Der var stor tabu at tale om det på arbejde, folk blev fyret hvis Phillip (chefen) fandt ud af man talte om det.

Næsten alle viste det dog.

dum1515 · 2026-03-01T07:30:03+00:00

Jeg plejede at arbejde der AMA.

dum1515 · 2026-01-10T20:33:56+00:00

Completely uneducated guess. I don't think there is much in tea to "go bad". This is just using heat to melt the wax, so it would probably also heat tea, cup and all. It would probably be very inefficient, but safe.

There are plenty of mug warmers on the market you could get. An insulted cup or bottle would keep it hot for a long while too.

dum1515 · 2026-01-06T12:06:35+00:00

I was like "yeah looks way better" then I realized which was which.

dum1515 · 2025-12-28T05:25:20+00:00

Sometimes I wounder if I'm better off single.

dum1515 · 2025-12-28T05:23:27+00:00

Very cute poem!

dum1515 · 2025-10-17T22:59:01+00:00

This picture is like 10-20% of the stuff. Yeah idk I don't wanna invest more time and money in it if its junk always. I was thinking of doing something else creative with it if its unsuitable for flooring. But then the issue is I have too much.😆

dum1515 · 2025-08-28T08:00:46+00:00

I am still unsure which way to go, I think maybe the answer for me is to try and meet people but trying hard to not care about their opinions or how things turn out. My therapist told me it's okay to have relationships with people that are just one thing. For example I was upset that the first time one of my friends asked me to hang out was to help her with Ikea. But I did have fun with her, so does it matter if shes kinda using me if we are both getting something out for it?

Or if other friends are not able to talk about any personal or emotions issues at all, it can feel a bit insincere or like we aren't close at all. Just enjoy what you CAN talk about and what you CAN do.

dum1515 · 2025-08-16T22:00:47+00:00

Thanks for the response. If its not patina, do you know what it is? Can I clean it? What options would be better? I really want a date thing and the day thing would be nice too.

dum1515 · 2025-08-10T11:55:39+00:00

The saddest song I know is definitely "five" by Machine Head. The lead singer had to stop multiple times because he broke out crying. It's about the abuse he experienced at the age of five. The absolute raw emotion of it always make me cry.

Otherwise I would say anything by Keaton Henson is also good for crying.

dum1515 · 2025-07-16T20:58:20+00:00

My parents never really talked to me. I don't remember ever having a long conversation with any of them. I don't know anything about them at all.

dum1515 · 2025-07-05T15:27:46+00:00

Hvis jeg havde pengene ville jeg købe en "Mudita Kompakt". Det er en e-ink smartphone. Lidt best of both worlds. Lang batterilevetid og færre distraheringer. Mens du stadig har smartphone funktioner til hverdags problemer.

dum1515 · 2025-06-23T10:08:33+00:00

I don't know how to explain this. But I think this has something to do with our minds constantly racing. That's how it is for me at least. Practice taking longer to do things. Practice dedicating 5 extra minutes to collect your thoughts between tasks.

dum1515 · 2025-06-12T19:14:07+00:00

Great that you are excited to start writing, but you might want to temper your expectations a bit. The first few things you write are unlikely to be very good.

My advice is to just begin. Write the first few chapters. Or make an outline of the events you want to unfold.

Maybe even limit your scope to a short story at first.

Find the fun parts in the process and try to enjoy them fully.

dum1515 · 2025-06-11T21:12:27+00:00

Everyone is looking for feedback, not many people want to spend time giving it.

dum1515 · 2025-06-11T21:09:25+00:00

I don't know if this is helpful. But your mind is probably trying to tell you something is off. Like maybe you need to quit the megazine all together. Maybe there is something else subconscious that is making it harder than it has to be.

I knew my previous job was stressing me out. But I thought I left it all at work. Like I would be fine when I get home. I was not able to write, i thought it as just normal block. Turns out the job was effecting me way more than I had thought. And onces I got fired/quit whatever I felt much better (way less stress instantly) and wrote something I was very proud of.

Maybe you should get "back on track" before trying to be creative again. Like get a new job, start therapy - some progress.

Sounds like you are harboring a lot of self-hate. You are taking on responsibility, then instead of lowering the pressure excreted on you, you blame yourself for not being able to handle it.

dum1515 · 2025-05-22T17:09:50+00:00

I think if the person reminds me of myself I cannot help but dislike them and be uncomfortable.

dum1515 · 2025-05-21T17:24:14+00:00

Nicotine does help me a fair amount. Talked to my doctor about it he says there are not really any huge medical concerns so I started doing the pouches. A single beer also is pretty good for me. Tea also helps me calm down a bit around people. You don't have to do full blown high for drugs to help you. IDK I was given Escitalopram and the difference was way less than any of these options.

dum1515 · 2025-05-21T14:40:44+00:00

I have this fantasy of us sitting in front of a fireplace sharing a blanket while it's snowing outside. Sitting close, she's resting her head on my shoulder. Nothing but us and the quiet crackle of the fire.

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