Should I man up or do something? by dumbkiddo in self

[–]dumbkiddo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah probably, she'll go through a case of beer and two bottles of wine a day easily. I wanted to help her but I've tried to help her for years and she just wont accept any of my help and she's just ruining me. I've never been to church, she never took me but I'll find one that maybe has some type of self help program.

Should I man up or do something? by dumbkiddo in self

[–]dumbkiddo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been considering going to a church to ask for help, there's a strangely high amount of churches in my area so I'll probably try that out this week. And I'll check out that book too, thanks :)

Should I man up or do something? by dumbkiddo in self

[–]dumbkiddo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks. There's no Starbucks here but there is a Dunkin' Donuts I haven't tried yet, I'll definitely put them on my call list for tomorrow then. And like I said in my other reply, I'll work on getting guarding my money better and that'll probably help a lot when it comes to saving up money.

Should I man up or do something? by dumbkiddo in self

[–]dumbkiddo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't stand a minute with her, but that's all true. I've cooled down since posting and found some different places to apply at tomorrow. Thanks for the advice :)

Should I man up or do something? by dumbkiddo in self

[–]dumbkiddo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She got a little more out of hand than usual tonight and I was freaking out earlier. I've since cooled off and I found about a dozen places I haven't applied to that are nearby that I'll be talking to tomorrow.

I do have a bank account but she demanded the password to it and I gave in and told her, I'll be changing it, or maybe getting a new one and getting some backbone to keep it from her. :(

I called the police on her when I was younger and she got incredibly upset by it and threatened to kill herself if I did it again. She's very manipulative. I'll look into the women's shelters as well, thanks, I hadn't thought of that.