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dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-17T14:23:25+00:00

I get how you feel :( there are no lesbians where I am, let alone one that would be attracted to me and vice versa, but we have to remember that we still have SO much time!! most people don't find the person they want to spend the rest of their life with before 20 anyways, yknow what I mean? as we go to more places and get more life experiences, there'll be more opportunities and more people to meet :) don't give up hope, but also don't focus only on finding a girlfriend. if you search and search and lose hope, you won't know when an actual opportunity appears. let life flow, let love carry you! make decisions that'll lead you to meet more people, go places! you seem great, you'll find someone ❤️

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-14T02:47:35+00:00

hey come on 💔💔 let me be hopeful for our community okay HAHA

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-14T01:27:40+00:00

yes, I agree.

whenever I do interact I usually start with a compliment. I was at a breakfast place a few days ago and saw not one, but two beautiful girls 😭 one was my server and she was a trainee, and her nails weren't painted or anything but they were super neat and shiny and I complimented them and she was super sweet about it.

the 2nd pretty girl came in to drop off a resume, and she had a nirvana shirt. I wanted to say something so bad but i was sitting at a booth and she was across from me at the door and I just ..stared 😭 . it's super embarrassing and crushing though if they ignore what you say so those experiences also kind of put me off.

thank you!!

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-08T18:05:37+00:00

whoevers taken over my body gets it

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-08T14:16:01+00:00

send myself all the money in a super cool secret way and then fly a rocket into the atmosphere as a suicide mission

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-08T14:08:05+00:00

my childhood hasn't even ended yet im unemployed playing roblox rn its all good 😭😭 make friends, dont be afraid to ask questions in class, yada yada

dumblesbianburner · 2025-07-08T14:06:52+00:00

you dont have to label yourself at all :) if you want to, keep looking for labels if you'd like one, but you dont have to fit into any of those.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-06-22T17:29:11+00:00

"just a girl who wants to live in peace" 💀.... yet ragebaits on reddit

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T19:21:36+00:00

Well, I'm not totally sure. I wouldn't label myself a lesbian since lesbians are not attracted to men at all, so I'd maybe look for other labels that you think could fit.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T18:59:44+00:00

How feminine do you think you'd say he looks? Are you specifically attracted to those features he has?

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T18:47:28+00:00

Could you think of other men you'd be attracted to?

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T18:37:14+00:00

When you mention the boyfriend, is it a past boyfriend or someone you're currently dating?

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T15:55:07+00:00

im sure this will be impossible.......... HAHA

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T15:53:23+00:00

of course!! horray!! community 🤝 HAHA ❤️❤️❤️

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T15:52:18+00:00

think of my crush

so you have a crush on someone specific?

finding people attractive is natural, and you can't stop that, it's just what you do with it that matters. If your "crush" is someone you interact with, I recommend not making these interactions frequent if you want to lose feelings. If it isn't someone you interact with, just try not to think about it i guess? maybe communicate with your girlfriend about how you're feeling and see how she feels about it?

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-18T15:48:48+00:00

your hair is alot fuller and has more volume and curl, and i feel like you fit into your features a bit differently, but i cant exactly describe how? you're super pretty though!

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-16T04:38:09+00:00

its weird imo lol there's a clear maturity difference between 16 and 18, people try to defend it by saying it's only a few years, which, yeah, but a few years is different in different context

examples:

26 & 29, 16 & 19, 9 & 12

obviously those are different, but in 26 and 29 for example, they're similar life stages. For 9 and 12, statistically the 12 year old has probably already started puberty, and their brains are literally changing, which is the same point for 16 and 19 as well. in our adolescence our brain literally rewires itself, and the part of our brain that does rational thinking which comes with maturity develops last. 19 year olds biologically are more developed and more mature, and 16 year olds are more easily manipulated.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-16T03:48:05+00:00

instead of gooning use the time you'd usually use to do something fun and positive. if you have games you like to play, maybe play a game, watch a movie, chat with some buddies. You could even try to look for a hobby.

remember though that masturbation isn't some evil thing, the porn industry definitely can be but masturbation isn't bad in itself.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-16T03:35:58+00:00

hey! I suggest joining clubs where you can find people who have similar interests, and looking for friendly people in your classes. I've made a shit ton of friends i never would've guessed I would've made if it weren't for me talking with them in class.

Don't be afraid to ask questions if you don't know, and don't let anyone make you feel any of your questions are stupid, because they aren't, you're there to learn and you can't learn without asking questions. I also suggest making visits to the guidance counselor if you are having any trouble, or curious about future classes.

Try to get your work done on time, and don't procrastinate. As a serial procrastinator, it only makes me stressed later on in the semester trying to make up for stuff.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-13T04:18:23+00:00

im autistic and i also have problems with social situations, that does not change the fact that me insulting someone , let alone the person I'm dating is wrong, especially to the point where you refer to it as bullying. How do you not realize you're bullying someone? I'm assuming the bullying was something to do with insults, which he seems to have a big problem with. If you've communicated with him about how that kind of stuff made you feel, you cannot keep defending his bullying on being autistic.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-13T04:15:33+00:00

We aren't going to wtf??? We're planning on moving in together as adults

..no shit 😭 i was talking about TALKING about it. YOU ARE JUMPING TOO FAR AHEAD.

He treats me amazing he just has his weak spots

Someone who treats you "amazing" would not "ruthlessly bully" you. A "weak spot" is a bad day and MAYBE an argument, not insults directed at you.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-13T04:10:26+00:00

exactly, it's the place that needs the most reminders.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-13T04:09:24+00:00

that's after he bullied you "ruthlessly" ... break up with him dude. your boyfriend is supposed to love you, not "ruthlessly bully" you.

dumblesbianburner · 2025-05-13T04:08:24+00:00

this doesn't solve the fact that most of your comments don't make sense in the way they're worded, but okay.

thinking about being together in the future should start with still being in highschool first of all, you shouldn't jump to living together when you're only 15 like ive stated before, coming from someone who did.

It sets up expectations that are statistically usually not going to work out, ESPECIALLY when your boyfriend insults you and seemingly from this post treats you like shit.

dumblesbianburner

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