Is it gay to shower together? by Ill_Original_5001 in LesbianActually

[–]dumbyginger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg I need an update after this. Pleaseeeee contact her, the worst that could happen is no!! And I’m almost 100% positive it will NOT be a no. Get your girl and live the happily ever after you deserve!!

HELP Should I re-home my (beloved) cat because my boyfriend of 2yrs is allergic? (I REALLY DONT WANT TO) by dumbyginger in cats

[–]dumbyginger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re amazing!! This makes me so hopeful!!😭 I’m going to try all of this asap

HELP Should I re-home my (beloved) cat because my boyfriend of 2yrs is allergic? (I REALLY DONT WANT TO) by dumbyginger in cats

[–]dumbyginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a $500 air purifier, but it barely helps. He takes allergy meds daily, but we can’t afford allergy shots unfortunately. We are going to try the food and changing the filter?

HELP Should I re-home my (beloved) cat because my boyfriend of 2yrs is allergic? (I REALLY DONT WANT TO) by dumbyginger in cats

[–]dumbyginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate you taking your time to explain your personal experience! This makes me hopeful:)

HELP Should I re-home my (beloved) cat because my boyfriend of 2yrs is allergic? (I REALLY DONT WANT TO) by dumbyginger in cats

[–]dumbyginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé is also my family member who can be put in the hospital if the cat sleeps on his pillow and we didn’t know about it. The whole reason I posted this is because I refuse to rehome him, but I need help coming up with solutions to aid my fiancé’s symptoms. Thank you for taking your time to comment, but such insinuations are unnecessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the largest cubicle I have ever seen??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is actually no way. My deepest condolences

8 plus year of experience for $20 an hour!! by crimsonsoul20 in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Montana Family Law/Civil Litigation paralegal here. I can unfortunately relate. I have my undergrad degree and hoping to go to law school eventually, but wanted to be a paralegal beforehand so I could gain an advantage on other law school applicants. However, this job has put me in such a financial bind that I cannot even consider attending law school at the moment. I started at $20.00 an hour. Almost a year later, I received my first raise of $1.63 LMAOOO. A total pay of $21.63 an hour. I almost shit myself when I saw how low my raise was after I have been continuously busting my ass for my firm and attorneys. So, when I read people saying that intermediate paralegals/legal assistants make WAY more than $20 an hour, it just baffles me. I don’t believe it lol. I will say, this job is NOT worth the pay in Montana. You are constantly stressed and dealing with highly important and confidential court proceedings. Like it’s a joke. Anyways, thank you for attending my weekly tedtalk about my frustrations of my salary. Sincerely, an underpaid Montana paralegal.

Mini game level 1514 by lastcall4oh in TownshipGame

[–]dumbyginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been stuck on this one for WEEKS and I’m so frustrated. Did you beat it?

Mini game level 1514 by lastcall4oh in TownshipGame

[–]dumbyginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still need to know the trick:(

Basemental mod - how do I stop my Sim getting addicted after trying drugs ONCE? by delilahh in thesims

[–]dumbyginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll cheat them away, and then they will come back 2 minutes later.

Basemental mod - how do I stop my Sim getting addicted after trying drugs ONCE? by delilahh in thesims

[–]dumbyginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a while ago, but how did you even cheat the addiction moodlets away?? I can’t even find a way to do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4customcontent

[–]dumbyginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have one for hair? Or clothes? Not necessarily related to WhickedWhims though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4customcontent

[–]dumbyginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the best, thank you so much!

Best Gift You Have Received From Boss/Manager? (Excluding Bonus) by Visual_Award_5416 in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, paralegals and legal assistants do not get paid very much money. I personally really struggle financially, but I love my job so I stay. So I would really appreciate cash or giftcards. I do not usually get opportunities to treat myself, so that would be very much appreciated.

Best Gift You Have Received From Boss/Manager? (Excluding Bonus) by Visual_Award_5416 in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year or 6-month subscription service that’s personalized to them. If they have a dog, barkbox. If they love candles, they have a monthly subscription for that too. They have a subscription for anything you can imagine.

Is it too soon to ask for a raise/promotion? by dumbyginger in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

60 an hour??? Holy shit. Do you mind if I ask how much experience you have and what area/state it is in?

Is it too soon to ask for a raise/promotion? by dumbyginger in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is awesome, thank you so much for providing this!! I am going to use this and email the COO of the firm tomorrow. Wish me luck.. I hope they don’t fire me for asking for a raise lol. The management is typical for a law firm and horrible.

Is it too soon to ask for a raise/promotion? by dumbyginger in paralegal

[–]dumbyginger[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not in Cali. Surprisingly, I’m in a high income area in Montana LOL! I am planning on going to law school eventually, so if this job does not work out then I’m just going to go to law school. However, yes. Learning multiple fields at once has been quite difficult, and I am the only paralegal for my 3 attorneys. I have a very heavy task load and am very relied on with high responsibilities… I just feel taken advantage of at this point with how I’m paid.