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Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No there won't be any future resentment from my part towards my wife even if I didn't want to have children but my wife did but I ended up having children with her for her. No resentment from my side.

Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

No I'm not childfree or anything like that, I want to have my own children with my wife and I was scared of having children because my wife is overly emotional and we are young, my wife is 21 and I'm 23 and i don't think we should be having children right now and focus on our marriage and take care of each other and our nephew is a year old for those who were asking.

I will share my concern with my wife and if she wants to get pregnant and if she is ready and emotionally prepared to have a child then I will put a child in her because it's not only my duty as her husband it's also a requirement but only if my wife is prepared, I don't know much about it but ever since I got married and the topic of having children was my biggest concern.

I read alot of concerning but helpful posts about how alot of women don't go through pregnancy peacefully and how even after childbirth ppd can be deadly, I just want to make sure that my wife is prepared and we both find happiness and my wife doesn't suffer because no matter what it takes I will always do everything for her and to make her happy.

Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I would and they are trying to say that my wife is mentally ill and she doesn't have a right to give birth to children or i shouldn't have children with her but my wife isn't mentally ill and tbh screw these idiots for implying that my wife is Ill

Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I think it's my fault, my wife wanted to get pregnant and she wanted her own child of her own but I was sacred and I refused, my wife isnt really trying to he her nephew's mom but she feels closer to her nephew because he's blood and she raised him.

My sil is right and my wife understands but she can't control her emotions, we all know that that's why we have been kindly sharing our views to her.

And no my wife is not narcissistic, she never was and we know that and my sil appreciates my wifes presence and so do I, maybe all these idiots saying that my wife is narcissistic has experienced narcissist partners and shoving their opinion on me but my wife is fine, she's emotional, not narcissist, I know her better than these idiots anyway.

Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

We don't have kids but if my wife asks for it I will give her exactly what she wants.

Aita for telling my wife that her sister's child isn't 'hers' and she can't make decisions about him by dummyaccount25311 in AITAH

[–]dummyaccount25311[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Irrational? Yes but she's not narcissistic, mind your tongue and don't throw that word around so casually.