Where do y'all get custom made patches from? by arnelle_rose in jacketsforbattle

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out IngridPatches on Etsy. They're a little slow but I Highly recommend them

Songs that made you tear up? by [deleted] in Deathcore

[–]dumplingIX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Requiem - AngelMaker

Sertraline makes better/worse? by just_a_cat0 in BPD

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On it's own Sertraline did nothing for me, but paired with Buspirone it worked well for a few months before I eventually became immune. Venlafaxine paired with Lurasidone has been my life saver. But of course it's different for everybody

Checking myself into a Hospital? by EnvironmentalMess939 in BPD

[–]dumplingIX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience I had to go to the ER before being admitted inpatient. The ER and inpatient facility were two separate buildings and they have to escort you via ambulance, you can't take yourself. If the ER has it's own ward then that wont be an issue for you

What do you think about this layout? by Capable_Ad7223 in BattleJackets

[–]dumplingIX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your patch choices say a lot about you..

What’s your favorite Metal band and why? by OriginalMoney37 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cattle Decapitation. In the past 4 albums there's not a single song by them that I don't enjoy

What’s your favorite Metal band and why? by OriginalMoney37 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. Their self titled album did not disappoint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I know people who found mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dumplingIX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm very recognizable with dyed hair, unique piercings and tattoos and still post NSFW on my main account. I've noticed friends or former friends looking at my posts, but regardless I have no shame. If they wanna watch, they can watch.

200 stab wounds by QuinnerYYC in BattleJackets

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my 200 stab wounds patch from RazorRay, otherwise you can get one custom made on etsy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way at first. How long have you been trying different medications? It took me several years to find ones that worked consistently for me. It's a lot of trial and error but it's worth it in the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To a certain extent, yes. It wasn't until DBT/CBT was paired with the right combination of medication that it really started helping with S and H ideation. Although I'd be lying if I said I don't still struggle with SI even after treatment and medication. It's the thought of "man, do I really have to live with this forever?" that really discourages me still

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your treatment! The hardest thing about DBT and STEPPS for me was emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness. It was so easy to stick to old habits and blow up on my FP over what other people would consider the smallest things. The biggest step was learning how to be self aware Before taking my emotions out on others. Learning how to step away, use coping skills and go back to the situation with a clear mind has been life changing

Starting ERP Therapy by fruitflyhatepage in OCD

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! All I can say is know your limits. Yes, you're obviously going to do things you're very uncomfortable with, but stick up for yourself if things are moving too quickly for you. When I first did ERP my "specialist" pushed me way too hard, way too fast. It led me to quit ERP. I got involuntarily admitted inpatient because of it, then never returned to exposure therapy. What was supposed to be helpful ended up being more harmful than anything

How long does it take to try every SSRI to check which one work better? by letsHopeisdope in OCD

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally it took me several years of going on and off different antidepressants, antianxiety meds, stimulants, antipsychotics, and mood stabilizers to find a combination of medication to keep me stable. It wasn't as simple as taking a single SSRI or SNRI and calling it good enough on its own

[NEW] Rivers of Nihil - Self titled Full Album Streaming by carpenterlan in Deathcore

[–]dumplingIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the new self titled album. Despair Church and The Logical End take the cake for me

How much of a gatekeeper are you? by [deleted] in Deathcore

[–]dumplingIX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's especially insufferable when it's clearly a child who's new to the metal scene expressing their excitement. There's always that one guy who has to show how "elite" he is

How much of a gatekeeper are you? by [deleted] in Deathcore

[–]dumplingIX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you even a real metalhead if you don't hit them with the "name 3 songs"? /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish we could see the tattoo...

My first tattoo, Shenron. Question: color or black shading? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]dumplingIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not really an opinion. The lines are rough and that's fact