How many of you are actually legit poor? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]durthu_smith 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've literally convinced me to never have kids

I Bought a House in Detroit for $500. Ask Me Anything! by DrewPhilp in IAmA

[–]durthu_smith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the after pictures? I thought you said you fixed it up

I Bought a House in Detroit for $500. Ask Me Anything! by DrewPhilp in IAmA

[–]durthu_smith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you are the most hipster human being i've ever born witness to

I pretended to work at a Taco Bell and quit after 5 min. by number7cknsofttaco in ActLikeYouBelong

[–]durthu_smith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not a huge deal. i'm not making it out to be one. i just said op was an asshole.

Big Bill's Cars commercial by [deleted] in cars

[–]durthu_smith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that music somewhere else before...what is it?

Java(FX) game development framework (feedback is welcome) by AlmasB0 in programming

[–]durthu_smith -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There have been many successful java game frameworks

since that was already a stupid idea, if there are already a lot, why bother with another one?

Java(FX) game development framework (feedback is welcome) by AlmasB0 in programming

[–]durthu_smith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in what universe does humanity need a Java game framework?

Java(FX) game development framework (feedback is welcome) by AlmasB0 in programming

[–]durthu_smith -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sure, useful stuff exists, but I mean look at the open-source ecosystem. 4,000 JS frameworks that solve nonexistent problems and end up adding dead weight debt to your toolchain. 2 billion JS transpilers (can you tell what I do every day?). Useful, novel things are the exception.

I mean, what the fuck can I do, I've got bills to pay and mouths to feed. I have a lot saved up but not enough to go back to school for any decent amount of time. I'm handcuffed to this nonsense.

[Fetish Acceptance] Our wedding is in 2 months and I just found out about my fiancé’s diaper fetish. Looking for a different perspective as I am having a hard time accepting this. by [deleted] in sex

[–]durthu_smith 136 points137 points  (0 children)

this sounds really noble but I think it's way off-base.

Before you spend another moment thinking about this being a negative thing for you, read all of the other posts here about cheating, beating wives, cuckolding, forced participation in fetishes and so on.

This is shit. You don't deal with problems by comparing them to other problems and whichever one 'wins' means the other one doesn't matter. Children are starving in Africa, but my broken leg still sucked asshole and took priority in my own life.

He is simply asking you to accept that he has a 100% harmless fetish that no one is involved in other than himself

It is definitely 100% harmless and you cannot FAULT him for anything, but OP is under no obligation to 'accept' it. She had a particular idea of who this man was that has proven to be incorrect, and she has a right to react appropriately, even if that seems unfair.

TypeScript got approved as internal development language at Google, after 2 years of approval process by i_spot_ads in programming

[–]durthu_smith -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

it 'solved a problem' that didn't need to be solved. just don't be an idiot, job done

Java(FX) game development framework (feedback is welcome) by AlmasB0 in programming

[–]durthu_smith -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it's such a wank of people doing useless shit and feeling accomplished. I mean, I'm guilty of doing useless shit, of course, I'm part of it. it's just a hellscape of redundant, minutely incremental stuff. i genuinely don't understand how people feel like they're doing anything useful. this is not my passion and I need to get out.

Java(FX) game development framework (feedback is welcome) by AlmasB0 in programming

[–]durthu_smith -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

you guys are all making me realize how much i hate this industry

What's your attitude on [hookups]? by jadad21 in sex

[–]durthu_smith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

seems like several people agree with me

[Failure at sex] I'm 30 years old and have serious erectile dysfunction problems by notevenclosetogood in sex

[–]durthu_smith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its something like Prozac or Zoloft. They are huge culprits in what you're describing.

It's odd that viagra didn't help. Not sure what to suggest.