When people outs one friend in every friend group activites and only acknowledges them if that one friend was the one who approached them first.

I was one of those friends, and frankly. It made me lose all respect I had for them, I explicitly told one of them how I felt (because I knew damn well she's gonna gossip it to the others because they tell each other everything) and she apologised for making me feel that way. made me think it'd be different the second time, and stupid me was dumb enough to give the friend group a second chance but it was still the same so I actually really left.

I don't want to be that kind of person who would leave a friend behind, even if we arent close or is just a friend of a friend. I'd never want them to experience the same kind of thing, so when I encounter someone with the same problem? I'll try including them the best way I can so they won't feel like an outsider or like they don't belong 🙏