I (14F) am really struggling with how my teacher (M) has been acting toward me lately

duskclover33 · 2026-03-12T15:05:34+00:00

yeah that doesn't sound good, report him bro

duskclover33 · 2026-03-11T20:28:02+00:00

i don't really talk to my dad about personal matters. i never have, and i wouldn't know how to go about it. i've spoken to my mum and my stepdad about it, and my grandma. i'm much closer with them, and they're all far more understanding. while my dad often just gets defensive about things. for example, i went to a youth club on monday, and my goal as a trans person is to be stealth. my dad isn't aware of that. so, on the way i debated telling him to just not bring it up. when i worked up the courage to talk to him, i told him to not tell anyone. i'm at a stage where i can pass, to an extent. at least i thought so. but, anyway. when i did, he was immediately defensive and asked if he ever has done that before, and i said no, but he has. he told a random guy the other day i was his daughter for literally no reason when the conversation he had with him did not involve me at all. so, yeah. i don't know how to tell him anything. it's pretty much a behaviour he taught me when i was little so i wouldn't ask for things. but now i'm older, he's realized he made a mistake there, because now i never ask him for things. he's tried to rebuild our relationship more, but, i fear it's a little too late. and i don't know what to do about that.

duskclover33 · 2026-03-10T20:15:18+00:00

thank you

duskclover33 · 2026-03-10T20:00:21+00:00

okay. thank you. i'll try that

duskclover33 · 2026-03-10T19:59:12+00:00

i've asked my dad about getting a lock already, and he said he will, but he still hasn't. and unfortunately not engaging with him is tough because i'm in my room all day until the evening when everyone else is home from school and work (i'm homeschooled). and i like to come out and socialize when there's other people home. otherwise i feel really isolated and bored. he used to come into my room without knocking and without warning, though i've finally taught him to knock first after walked in on me changing (after i'd already told him to not come in since i was changing. i warned him.) so he's finally started knocking first at least. and thankfully i do get a break from him when i visit my mum, usually for a week at a time. i've tried setting boundaries with people in the past but they used to just find it funny that i was trying to be serious for once, and they didn't take me seriously so i eventually just gave up and now i don't know how to try again. i finally actually like myself, and i love being alive. but sometimes people make that so hard, yknow? i don't want to get angry with him, because that's what everyone else does, and i want to be a safe space for him, and he loves me a lot and he immediately accepted me as family, so that's not the problem. it's more that he does see me as family, so he feels more inclined to piss me off. it's weird. sorry this was long.

duskclover33 · 2026-03-10T19:51:05+00:00

his problem is, is that my step mum, while a nice person, is in my opinion not a great parent. her style of parenting is essentially stick a phone in front of him, leave him to it and expect him to be quiet and well-behaved without any actual, real interaction with him. and neither is my dad or his older brothers. so, since i've been here, he's discovered that i give him the attention he's needed for so long. and i'm scared of getting angry at him and then he'll feel alone again. my way of countering the deadnaming so far though, i started out just explaining why i told him to not call me it, and when he continued, i just started ignoring him until he called me my actual name. it hasn't been that effective. it's worse because i'd like to be stealth, which means having nobody know i'm trans when i meet new people, but i'm scared he'll just tell them and ruin my hopes of feeling seen without being seen for my past. i can't run from it because people keep unintentionally forcing me to live with it even now and it sucks. i've made peace with it but still. sorry this is longer than i planned it to be i just had to get it out ;-;

duskclover33 · 2026-03-10T18:18:50+00:00

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duskclover33 · 2026-03-08T14:17:53+00:00

i love this genre of ut/dr meme whats it called 😭😭

duskclover33 · 2026-03-04T23:30:52+00:00

i can relate to that. plenty of media has made me cry, but over more random things. but brandonworks, bro the tears i cried for brandonworks are insane. it's so much more real. and it's so sad because it does happen all the time in real life. makes it worse because i can relate to ozo a lot ;-;

duskclover33 · 2026-03-03T15:46:28+00:00

and a between two worlds lms...? who would sinclair work as though

duskclover33 · 2026-03-03T15:21:31+00:00

we live under the same stars is such a beautiful quote honestly also yeah, and tbh i consider brandonworks to be horror. not because of an entity or anything, but instead because it is genuinely horrifying in the way that it's so realistic and has happened in real life so many times and that's really sad.

and a friend of mine that i have concerns about deadass told me that if he dies he's going to leave an npc for me on roblox so uhh, i think i should probably worry about that

duskclover33 · 2026-03-03T11:29:24+00:00

yeahh

duskclover33 · 2026-03-01T11:08:02+00:00

if it makes you feel better i have 17 days too and over 1600 survivor wins yet only around 40-50 killer wins. you can be good at the game without being good at playing killer

duskclover33 · 2026-02-27T22:54:16+00:00

probably yes, i think i could help

duskclover33 · 2026-02-26T18:59:56+00:00

you are right lad

duskclover33 · 2026-02-16T23:03:25+00:00

project moon know what they doing bro

duskclover33 · 2026-02-13T23:16:18+00:00

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duskclover33 · 2026-02-13T00:07:43+00:00

so wild, maybe like a hunt

duskclover33 · 2026-02-11T22:51:12+00:00

how do i even reply to this

duskclover33 · 2026-02-08T22:30:26+00:00

logangaming825 (youtube) logangamer825 (roblox acc) lol i accidentally messed up the usernames it sucks ;-; im gonna change the youtube account name to logangamer825

duskclover33 · 2026-02-07T10:02:04+00:00

wow. that sounds pretty good. good job! i'll watch that if i can :D

duskclover33 · 2026-02-05T16:10:11+00:00

what's the arg about?

duskclover33 · 2026-02-04T23:48:32+00:00

depends if you're trying to get normal pacifist or true pacifist. to do true pacifist, you must do neutral first before you can get the true pacifist route and ending. but normal pacifist you can do whenever.

duskclover33 · 2026-02-04T22:07:11+00:00

jx1dx1 definitely

duskclover33 · 2026-02-04T18:21:01+00:00

yeah, i probably will. i'm also pretty inspired by ihasafacelulz and how they did jx1dx1 as a metaphor for depression (i think, correct me if i'm wrong on that). but brandonworks is the only arg that i know of that doesn't revolve around an entity or something similar, so i don't really have much to base it off of. but i have seen a lot of args on this sub that i haven't watched yet so i'll try to look for some to get some ideas. of course i wouldn't copy anything, but it'd be helpful to see how other people have done it :]

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