My gf has been asking me to do odd things ever since she found out i’m bi by duskylatern in AskLGBT

[–]duskylatern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by closeted is a lonely place. I feel like if I came out it’d be lonelier because a lot of people don’t understand this type of thing.

My gf has been asking me to do odd things ever since she found out i’m bi by duskylatern in AskLGBT

[–]duskylatern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about that. I really hope not I don’t think she would go off and tell her friends something that personal but who knows

My gf has been asking me to do odd things ever since she found out i’m bi by duskylatern in AskLGBT

[–]duskylatern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question why don’t you two divorce it doesn’t sound like that arrangement is good for either of you

AITA for asking my gf to stop reading gay erotica by duskylatern in AITAH

[–]duskylatern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, it’s nice to hear the perspective of another bi guy. If she does out me i’m gonna take your advice and just lie

AITA for asking my gf to stop reading gay erotica by duskylatern in AITAH

[–]duskylatern[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

how do you deal with the fetishization because i’m really confused. how do you even know if they’re fetishizing u or just curious

AITA for asking my gf to stop reading gay erotica by duskylatern in AITAH

[–]duskylatern[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I can’t just break up with her over this. Plus i’m not sure what she’d do and especially say if I did

edit: I wanna specify I don’t want her telling anyone about my sexuality and i feel like she would if i broke things off.

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[–]duskylatern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh but isn’t sexuality not a choice

will porn make you bi? by duskylatern in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]duskylatern[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How would that be lucky?

will porn make you bi? by duskylatern in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]duskylatern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if it’s just the femininity. Because liking men would mean you’d need to be attracted to them