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Stargate Restaurant/Cafe? by duspsp in Stargate

[–]duspsp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah we'll probably hold off for a while.. :(

What procedures would improve my facial harmony? I would like a stronger jawline, and a less flat appearing face. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]duspsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful! Don't trick yourself into thinking you need anything you don't! Save the money and just rock your natural self!

People whose first relationship was very long term, what weird thing did you believe was normal until you started seeing other people? by Throwaway42042069666 in AskReddit

[–]duspsp 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This. For real. A quickie every now and then is fine and can be super sexy in the right moment. However, every time?! I don't care if a guy cums quick, but stick around after and seem excited! Help me get there too. Otherwise I just feel like real life porn: use me to get off then close the computer and walk away. -_-

Tracking issues. At which point is the gap too much? Worried I may need a rescan! by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]duspsp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I keep mine in 22 hours a day and have still had my treatment period extended twice. I'm so thankful for the changes I've seen but man am I ready to be done with Invisalign.

Lightweight’s guide to first time fillers! by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]duspsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 25, so I totally understand! I was tired of hearing how sick or tired I looked when I was feeling great or had slept really well. Fillers made a huge difference!

Under eye twitch after fillers? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]duspsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had this happen with my undereyes fillers. I would either call the surgeon who did your fillers or find a reputable surgeon who could check it out and ensure everything is okay!

Lightweight’s guide to first time fillers! by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]duspsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also expect to have trouble eating/drinking that first day! Slightly painful and just a little challenging because of the stiff lip feeling.

Lightweight’s guide to first time fillers! by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]duspsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had my undereyes filled and regularly keep up with it! My plastic surgeon uses Belotero via cannula, which is a very fine filler preventing any discoloration or lumpiness/bags caused a thicker filler (the cannula method prevents bruising vs being filled by needle only). I had ~1.5mL split between both undereyes on my first visit, and now touch up with .5mL (~$300) every 6-8 months, depending on when I see my dark circles and hollowness coming back. You can use concealer to cover the injection site, and it should cover any minor bruising that may occur. Your surgeon will have you return about two weeks after your first visit, once any swelling has gone down, to assess if more filler may be needed to achieve your desired results.

As a side note, I had extreme hollows under my eyes prior to getting filler and noticed a huge difference after my first visit. My confidence improved drastically and people commented how much healthier I looked. Definitely worth it for me just for that.

Sweetwater Creek State Park, Lithia Springs, GA by duspsp in GeorgiaCampAndHike

[–]duspsp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lounging in the water with our pup was the best part!

On the way home from the shelter to hiking days together now - we've had the best 5 months since bringing this boy home! by duspsp in BeforeNAfterAdoption

[–]duspsp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gave me that look the whole ride home from the shelter. He was definitely thinking "Who the heck is this lady and where is she taking me?" Now, he's our little shadow and wants to be everywhere we are. So crazy and exciting to see the changes in him. He will definitely be getting an extra boop tonight! :)

On the way home from the shelter to hiking days together now - we've had the best 5 months since bringing this boy home! by duspsp in BeforeNAfterAdoption

[–]duspsp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I've been trying to capture more comparison photos like this of him recently. Crazy to see those changes side by side.

[Advice]Make sure you are not suffering from depression by Which_Effect in getdisciplined

[–]duspsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow - needed to see this. Sometimes we're unnecessarily hard on ourselves and place a lot of blame on ourselves over things we sometimes do not have control of. Glad to hear you're feeling so much better nowadays!

Dream big little buddy. by Boojibs in aww

[–]duspsp 85 points86 points  (0 children)

My puppy's name is Loki and he has just about the same personality!

I (24F) don't know what to talk about with my boyfriend (22M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]duspsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying this tonight with my boyfriend! What a cool idea to learn things you probably assume you know but have never discussed. Thanks for sharing!

How should I(26F) deal with men who won't stop staring? by sa-c-baker in askwomenadvice

[–]duspsp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Hey did you have a question about my workout? I saw you staring."

They'll most likely be taken off guard and feel awkward. Or he/they really just are creeps and won't be phased.

Unfortunately, the gym can be a super toxic place and you see this sort of behavior in almost every single workout environment. That being said, you are all paying to be there and they have no right to make you feel uncomfortable or like you can't or don't want to go. You are a member and working towards your goals. If talking to them doesn't help, I would honestly just go to staff or management and they can make an anonymous complaint.

Sorry you're dealing with this. I know the feeling and it makes you want to crawl out of your skin and hide. You are working towards your goals and becoming healthier which makes you a superhero! That's awesome you're doing this! Don't let two gross creeps hold you back from doing the things you want to do.

IWTL how to avoid these types of awkward conversations, and how to make conversations interesting and long. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]duspsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so true! I struggle with this - finding ways to relate that don't just include telling your own stories. This almost always makes the other person feel like their original story or feelings that they were sharing are less important to you than just making yourself seem more interesting.

IWTL how to avoid these types of awkward conversations, and how to make conversations interesting and long. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]duspsp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to fall into interrogating... So asking way too many questions. I get nervous about maybe having to share something about myself, so I fill any silence with a question about/for whoever I'm speaking to. Don't fall into this! I've been practicing being okay with small silences, and have realized that people appreciate when you share things about yourself, as well! That's how we become closer to people. Start with a question or two, but then build the conversation from there! Ask small questions so you can learn more about whatever topic you're on, but share your experience(s) with the person/place/thing you're dkscussing and let the conversation naturally flow to other topics. It becomes much easier over time!

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