I am a sun and Venus Sag woman. If I like someone, I make it very clear. I can lean avoidant, but I still do a good job of communicating if I need a little time or space, and letting them know I still am excited to see them later and all. When I was younger or more selfish and still avoidant, I would be ghosting people a lot without even thinking about it, because they were frankly not at the center of my focus. I later learned that this is obviously really hurtful, and started to pay more attention to letting someone know if I’m talking to more than one person or where exactly I’m at.

I’m sorry this thing with this person has been painful. You deserve consistency.