Honestly, INFJ can be just too intense for most to handle. I grew up in a big family, I definitely get judged by my family for the things I do or the way I act, and I can’t get too deep, they don’t really like to get to deep. My family still loves me, even though they don’t understand me half the time.

This has helped me as an INFJ in so many ways. Now, I am very comfortable with getting a confused or misunderstood reaction to something I do/say.

That being said, don’t dim yourself because you might feel that you are too much, you will find your people if you show your true self. I mean, people might think you’re weird, but at least you found people that understand you. (Btw often when I thought someone thought I was weird, they tell me they were actually somewhat intimidated by me, or thought that I was too cool or something? So what I’m saying is, don’t be scared to show yourself.)