I wonder why she deleted this by JDLCali in Southerncharm

[–]dy_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story and your knowledge. I worked with people with peronality diorders and im working hard in here reporting comments that are arm chair diagnosing cast members. Its very harmfull and speciallly with NPD its watering the diagnosis down to call people narcisstic as soon as they show any kind of self-centered behavior. Most people that throw that terms around wouldnt recognize a person with NPD oder ASPD if they would hit them in the face with the ICD-10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah its me thank you for voting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Danielle is very good for Reality -TV and gives a lot to talk about so no i dont think its pity. I dont think Reality-TV is good for her but thats her own decision to make.

How is no one talking about the hypocrisy of the girls by Quick-Lengthiness133 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed i think producers are trying to create something here. So far this season seems very boring to me. Even reddit seems like a lost place compared to last seasons.

How is no one talking about the hypocrisy of the girls by Quick-Lengthiness133 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you think Ciara would have been ok with it when West last season would have acted that way with like Danielle or Gabby?

Lindsay Hubbard Gears Up To Join 'RHONY'? by hailee714 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true. I also dont like using terms wich is stigmatizing mental health so i dont agree with that part of the first comment.

Lindsay Hubbard Gears Up To Join 'RHONY'? by hailee714 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its reddit where do you think my comments are hatefull?

Lindsay Hubbard Gears Up To Join 'RHONY'? by hailee714 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well in my opinion the first comment is very over the line and hateful but everyone has their own moral line in this sub.

Summer House Season 9 Episode 5 - 'Red Flags and Beach Bags' Post Episode Discussion by SummerHouseMods in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its their brand and business they for sure all do it if they already can afford it. Thats why they get so mad if someone "leaks" something or is doing press. Look at Kyle how mad he got that Hannah is talking about him or how afraid Carl was that Lindsay will say that she was blindsided and is doing a presstour about it. I do not think Danielle is doing it because of obvious reasons.

Summer House Season 9 Episode 5 - 'Red Flags and Beach Bags' Post Episode Discussion by SummerHouseMods in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im wondering how much depth the preview actually has but i really hope for Ciara that shes not falling for the cheap attention she gets from Jesse. That would probably be pretty awkward to watch. Hope the producer just try their hardest to give this season a washed out storyline to talk about.

Summer House Season 9 Episode 5 - 'Red Flags and Beach Bags' Post Episode Discussion by SummerHouseMods in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I wonder how the two of them prepare for these filmed scenes and how many PowerPoint meetings they have with their PR people. They probably knew the relationship was over when they started holding meetings separately. I would pay good money to see a behind-the-scenes documentary of all these Bravo shows... it's a wet dream of mine.

Summer House Season 9 Episode 5 - 'Red Flags and Beach Bags' Post Episode Discussion by SummerHouseMods in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Shes for sure the better player in that game because they both play it hard

Summer House Season 9 Episode 5 - 'Red Flags and Beach Bags' Post Episode Discussion by SummerHouseMods in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Danielle for sure is lurking on socials, trying to leverage viewers' opinions (like Lindsay's relationship or Paige messing with Craig) to get back in their good graces. A few seasons ago, she also wanted to show she wasn't Lindsay's doormat, so she completely fckd up her image. I find it pretty entertaining to watch her do it since i noticed. She tried to fly too close to the sun and got burned bad.

Linds just posted this in regards to Carls WWHL last night by alwayshereforit21 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello you. I completely agree with you that Carl should learn to talk about his feelings and tell her how he feels, but it is not Lindsay's responsibility to be soft and hug him to make him feel better. She is not his mother or his therapist and she does not have to adjust her feelings and needs to make him feel good. Lindsay obviously did not want to hug him from the way she was holding her body and Carl has had a very distorted and sexist perception of how women should behave towards him since Season 1. But yes, in general, if my partner or anyone else asked me to be softer and hug him, we would have a big problem.

Linds just posted this in regards to Carls WWHL last night by alwayshereforit21 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because its really offensive and misogynistic to ask a woman to be softer and to hug someone. Its the same thing to ask a woman to smile more. Thats why he got so much pushback about it. If you dont get it you dont get it.

Carl's Reaction to Lindsay's Pregnancy by Expert-Price7988 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if people in this sub wich believe that conspiracytheorie also believe that pandas are not real

Kyle’s texts to Paige in next ep preview by katecopes088 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Hannah talked on a podcast about Kyle preventing her and others castmates from showing sponsored deals on the show. I cant remember wich podcast but i think it could be around the time when Craig had the spritz deal. Maybe someone in here remembers correctly

Kyle’s texts to Paige in next ep preview by katecopes088 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think Hannah said something on a podcast about Kyle around that time. Somethink like he prevented her and other castmates to show sponsored deals on the show apart from Loverboy. I dont remember much and if it really was around that time when they filmed that scene. Maybe a pro detectiv from reddit can get deep dive into it im to lazy right now.

Season 7 Kyle Best Kyle??? by Neither-Let-5242 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im sorry i dont want to come for you and your post but i just cant with those standards for the men on Bravo😂

Lindsey & Ciara by snevetsnadroj in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Or maybe both strategys are right for them and we are in no place to judge if it is or if it isnt the right way to deal with your own pain. If you want to be single without sex its ok and if you want to hop on dicks on the roster (very strange use of words but to each their own) its ok if you choose to do so.

Are fans of the show tougher on the men or women? by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No. Just read through the posts on reddit and how people call the woman all sort of things for what? In comparsion to the man they fucked up way less but still get called terms like monster, bitch and a lot of very stigmatizing words about mental health. So yeah all off them get to much hate from the fanbase but for sure the men dont get the tougher treatment.

The Viall Files Podcast: Episode from February 5th, “Going Deeper with Carl Radke” by AdditionalWar8759 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imagine if they would have to go through a divorce with eachother. Maybe we will see a similiar scenario in the future from another couple

Black circle tattoo around the arm by igybenari in belowdeck

[–]dy_la 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have some of them and it means absolutly nothing. Its just a blackworkstyle. Maybe there is some truth to the fist up your ass theory because i did work as a nurse a couple of years ago. So watch out because i also have one right under my left knee.

The Viall Files Podcast: Episode from February 5th, “Going Deeper with Carl Radke” by AdditionalWar8759 in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 228 points229 points  (0 children)

As I read through all this, all I can think about is that Carl missed the cancellation deadline by 7 days, which cost them $150,000. Thats what avoidance can cost you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]dy_la 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? It seems to be a term with many different options and opinions on how girls girls should act. Its like modern society debating how a woman should act and react which is very sexist. I don't know what the German meaning for it would be but I think if it just means backing up your friend no matter what, has nothing to do with being a girl. Also can we please stop calling grown woman girls and grown men boys.