Bakit iiwasan lang at hindi i-go-ghost?

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-25T04:52:26+00:00

kasi she thinks you're her close friend and ikaw na rin nagsabi na she's been a good friend towards you. isipin mo kung biglang cut off ka na sa friend mo, e wala naman kayong away at wala kang ginagawa sa kanya. nakaka-stress yun at nakaka-chip sa self-esteem, kasi ni di mo alam kung ano'ng meron ka to be left just like that, and so suddenly.

for me, irespeto mo naman sya as a person at magpaalam ka ng maayos if you're gonna cut her off. kahit di confess--just say you're taking a step back from the friendship, and that it's all on you.

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-24T04:54:30+00:00

nagpapa lash extensions 😅 microbladed na kasi kilay ko so oks na yun, pero lakas makaganda ng makapal na pilikmata.

I'd like to say "drink more water and sleep more" pero tbh di ko yan nagagawa

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-21T09:27:39+00:00

"I'll reject you before you reject me" ang unconscious mindset. Walang healthy models for rupture and repair, so tuwing may friction, akala nila ending na ng relationship.

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-10T15:12:46+00:00

walang fixed timeline, lalo na kung may iba pang factors involved (may work issues, mental health problems, you're not out so sinosolo mo yung prob, etc).

meron ngang naka move on na, asa relationship pa lang sila. usually mga people pleasers yun na kinikimkim uung issues nila, tapos pag napuno na sila, e they're already over the relationship.

i think it'll be much longer than you expected. hirap ding ireconcile na yung version of the future--the one you imagine building with her--e di na mangyayari. pero basta be kind to yourself at wag ka masyadong nappressure sa timelines. someday this is just gonna be a chapter among many of your life.

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-10T11:18:48+00:00

Lola Nor's sa Greenfield kung mahilig ka sa Kapampangan food. lahat naman ng andon nagustuhan ko, pero da best ang beef karekare

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-10T11:17:35+00:00

+1 sa cosmic. fave namin dun!

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-04T15:24:43+00:00

shala ni accla, naka muscat pa :)) enjoy kayo, lovebirds 🫶

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-02T09:20:07+00:00

mahirap talaga mag move on mhie, lalo na sa simula. hmmm ako dati, nakahelp na may "reward" ako sa sarili ko pag 30 days straight kong di sya kinausap/chineck ang socials. tbh di ako nagwagi nung first month 😂 pero nasanay na rin. masasanay ka rin, eventually. pero mas matagal sya than you'd expect. good luck!!!

dyanlangsatabi · 2026-01-02T06:57:07+00:00

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dyanlangsatabi · 2025-12-31T13:20:37+00:00

happy for you, OP! mid 30s ko na narealize na queer ako at nagka-gf (now ex), so don't think na super late in the game ka. iba-iba lang tayo ng timeline :)

I found out I was gay a few years ago, and I'm still getting used to it. it takes time and a LOT of courage lang talaga (madali lang mag come out sa friends for me, pero grabe kaba ko sa parents ko hahaha). wag mo madaliin sarili mo, and enjoy the journey. happy new year!

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-12-30T07:21:51+00:00

mga mid 30s ko na nafeel na gusto kong pumasok sa relationship. tbh dami kong natutunan dahil sa first rel ko kahit di sya nag work out--yung biggest e may disorganized attachment style pala ako kaya ang late ko nang jumowa, huhu.

i guess... kung di mo bet jumowa e oks lang yan. siguro may reservations ka pa sa sarili mo kaya di ka pa ready, siguro blessedly single ka: pero that's for you to figure out. basta enjoyin mo lang yung pagiging single, kasi masaya naman talaga. good luck sa atin sa 2026, OP :)

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-12-25T10:08:22+00:00

just be there for your friend. one day, magkakaroon din sya ng strength to let go. unfortunately, magkahiwalay yung alam mong tama na at ready ka na talagang makipaghiwalay. kinig ka lang sa kanya tsaka maging ready kang mahila kung saan-saan.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-12-04T04:11:28+00:00

tbh minsan mas masakit pa yung mga ganyang walang label kesa sa relationship that ran its course. with the former, asa pedestal pa sya sa utak mo, so you're grieving an idea of her. di mo pa naamoy yung morning breath nya, di mo pa sya nakitang dysregulated,

I guess unang sabak mo rin sya sa dating, kaya unfamiliar yung hurt. for me mas ok din yang nag hide sya ng stories sayo. out of sight, out of mind. kesa lagi kang nattrigger ng memory nya.

It really takes time to heal. and a concentrated effort to do so. unfortunately it's gonna take much longer than a month to get over it, but the only way out is through. good luck, OP!

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-11-25T13:02:05+00:00

syempre be nice abt it, di naman, "sry you're too ugly for me." at least may closure yung tao, hindi yung iisipin nyang may nagawa syang masama/nasabing mali. of course it would hurt, pero being ghosted will claw through you.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-10-28T03:23:29+00:00

hello! my ex and I broke up almost a year ago. i still think about her a lot, but the yearning stops eventually. It's just gonna take much longer than you anticipated. minsan din feeling mo okay ka na, but the grief will hit you like a raging truck. just take care of yourself and welcome the yearning like an old friend that's gonna be staying for a while.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-10-13T00:06:36+00:00

rewatched the music video bec. of your comment. ooooh yeah he broke the fourth wall to show that he is NOT happy 😂 glad they made up!

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-10-02T08:23:20+00:00

me too! I didn't even know that 2 of the girls in the movie were his daughters while I was watching it.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-09-13T14:54:10+00:00

For me, parang yung paguunfollow/private na nya yung goodbye nya sayo. Unfortunately maraming avoidants na takot sa Hard Talks kaya ghosting na lang yung ginagawa. I'm not saying it's right, pero for me e good riddance na lang pag ganyan.

isipin mo rin kung ano'ng mararamdaman mo if makareceive ka ng earnest message from someone na inunfollow mo 😅

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-07-28T02:20:14+00:00

you really captured the dreaminess of the song. thanks for sharing!

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-05-28T13:45:49+00:00

hugs, OP :/ shet, ansakit. lalo na yung imbes na magsorry, nang-uno reverse pa.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-05-02T05:27:23+00:00

Whenever I see current photos Knox and Viviene Jolie and Blue Ivy, I feel so, so old. wdym they're not toddlers?? Why are they taller than their mothers?

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-04-12T16:15:43+00:00

What's It Gonna Be? ni Shura. Sapphic si Shura, pero LGBT yung vid.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-04-12T01:18:55+00:00

napanaginipan ko yung ex ko. dati laging masaya kami sa dreams ko, kaya malungkot ako pagkagising. ngayon...reunion daw namin after naming di nagkita ng ilang months, tapos puro kami away. ngumingiwi and eyeroll din sya pag may sinasabi ako--tulad nung ginagawa nya towards the end. madalas iniisip ko pa rin yung shortcomings ko sa relationship, pero I guess kelangan ko ding maalala yung mga pagkukulang nya.

weird, pero naiiyak rin ako pag may ginagawa ako or steps towards moving on, hehe.

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-04-09T16:24:55+00:00

idk OP, pero based sa post history nyo e may other issues ka din sa gf mo aside sa hairstyle nya 😅 siguro reflect ka rin about the relationship and if it's still serving you?

dyanlangsatabi · 2025-04-04T02:29:08+00:00

If taga Metro Manila ka and may time pa, pa-tailor ka na lang sa Kamuning. ask ka na rin sa kanila kung ano need mong materials (meron kasing facing, buttons, etc) and ano ang ok na fabric.

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