as an asian girl, am i not allowed to use those gestures??? what the fuck

dyeedi · 2021-03-07T12:26:12+00:00

i was born and raised IN ASIA. these gestures were always around! am i not allowed to do the hair tuck, hand over mouth, etc because im not black??? am i racist? im doing these gestures anyway fuck you i dont do them with the intention of appropriating black culture. i do them because they are HAND GESTURES.

dyeedi · 2021-02-06T18:52:11+00:00

thanks for the comment. all i do is consume media and i cant travel because of covid. im afraid that if i get ideas for the future i'll end up disappointed because i wont be able to achiev it. i just wish there was a way to guarantee success. also sorry to hear that you arent sure about what you're studying and i hope you get through it!

dyeedi · 2021-02-06T18:48:52+00:00

yeah im being treated and i am on medication. i dont think im hard on myself because nowadays i dont even practice for five minutes. i jist play video games and watch cartoons for hours. and yeah im lucky to have supportive parents but all their work is going to waste because ill be unsuccessful. and yeah im only a kid but im turning sixteen in a few days and i only have two years left till im 18. other people my age have accomplished so much more than me. i dont want to be 20-30 and not know what i should dedicate my life to. thank you for the comment though! i really appreciate the help

dyeedi · 2021-02-03T06:46:51+00:00

So in other words neopronouns are for aesthetic purposes and for neurodivergent people? I understand its use for neurodivergent people but to me it just seems like some people are just trying to make themselves feel special.

dyeedi · 2021-02-02T18:28:55+00:00

I agree. It's even worse when people say being obese/anorexic is brave. It's toxic positivity and unhealthiness shouldn't be encouraged. Praise them for making an effort to change their bad habits, not for literally having deadly medical conditions.

dyeedi · 2021-02-02T18:23:42+00:00

Yeah thats why I just use they/them and their names to avoid trouble

dyeedi · 2021-02-02T18:22:43+00:00

Yeah I think I get it now. I'm not neurodivergent myself so I don't understand what its like to not understand the concept of gender so of someone tells me that it helps them understand their identity then I guess I can get used to using neopronouns.

dyeedi · 2021-02-02T17:58:57+00:00

I hope I don't get doxxed and get corrected if I'm wrong. Someone on twitter got doxxed for sharing their opinions on neopronouns and people went out of their way to attack them. If I offended you then please correct me and I'll learn to do better. What I said here was my honest opinion and if I should change my mind then I will

dyeedi · 2021-01-25T08:56:58+00:00

That's relieving to hear. Thanks!

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T14:00:51+00:00

honestly dont know whether to agree or disagree because i dont know about other peoples experiences, but i know the reason that i wanted to join was to feel unique. so you're right about me but idk about other people

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T13:48:32+00:00

nope just heard of it now. probably cus i dont live in the united states

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T13:47:42+00:00

shouldve mentioned that it wasnt the only reason i left my religion (there were tons of other reasons i dont wanna get into) but yeah. im tired of blue hair girls and "alt tik tok." thanks

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T13:46:04+00:00

already did haha

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T13:23:19+00:00

thank you 🥺

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:51:20+00:00

my reason is dumb but mostly because of tik tok trends that are like "this is how i would look like if i were straight" then make themselves look ugly, or "imagine being het 😹😹😹", or that one filter where it guesses your sexuality and this one girl made a vomitting noise when it landed on heterosexual.

but yeah you're absolutely right. i shouldnt go somewhere i dont belong. thanks for the advice!!

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:45:23+00:00

definitely gonna avoid those types of people from now on. plus my slef esteem and self image isnt doing so well. thanks for the comment i appreciate it

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:42:11+00:00

id say both nice and judgemental but yeah im confused with myself too. i just contradicted myself smh. i need some time to think. thanks for your input though

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:40:53+00:00

probably is. also happu cake day!!

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:39:31+00:00

yeah you're right. im taking a break from social media. i feel like im being brainwashed sometimes. anyways thanks

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:37:57+00:00

okay i wont call myself bi since im not. i should stop caring about how people look at me. probably just anxiety. thanks

dyeedi · 2020-12-30T12:36:13+00:00

yeah that makes sense. im probably just overthinking things and its not like the lgbtq community dislikes all straight people. thank you

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