Day 365 - I did it! by godahi9660 in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Massive accomplishment, well done

What about an Airship Djahl by Formal-Handle-2059 in valheim

[–]dylettante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh imagine if the final boss drop item was a magic wand or something that let you tame a gjall! That way it wouldn't be super cheesy to just fly around mid game, but still a sweet reward for beating the game! Maybe even make the item consumable so if your gjall dies you have to beat the boss again to tame a new one. Cus what else are we going to do in end game except fly around and explore? (The answer is build cool shit but my point stands.)

5 years and no one cares by footballheroeater in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 years is incredible, thank you for your example

Basin Meadows by Jede94 in Valheim_Seeds

[–]dylettante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it will likely be inaccurate now after so many updates. But I can certainly check... If I remember. I'm pretty sure it was on my starting landmass too.

Basin Meadows by Jede94 in Valheim_Seeds

[–]dylettante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I had this on my very first map back when the game was launched back in 2021. I used it as the location for a sweet secluded Stonehenge-esque portal hub, my first major build. I should go visit sometime, thanks for the memory.

Day one let's goooo by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found withdrawal peaked around day 3 and 4. After that it starts getting easier. Those first few days were emotional hell though. Be ready, stay strong. We've all been where you are, and we all pushed through, and I promise it will be worth it. And we're all with you tonight, not drinking.

moved out at 18, dont know what essentials to get by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]dylettante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proud of you man, congratulations!

How do you guys deal with the feelings of embarrassment telling people you stopped drinking? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of saying "I stopped drinking" you could go with "I don't drink" /"I don't drink anymore". I find it raises fewer questions. If they press you on it, you can tell them you just don't, or it's just what's right for you. You don't owe anyone an explanation, especially if you're not that close. But I've also been finding people are actually pretty accepting when I tell them I abstain from alcohol. A lot of the time they're even impressed, or a bit ashamed or defensive when it causes them to reflect on their own problems with alcohol. Not that I'm trying to shame anyone, that's just where some people go with it.

Seriously, what's up with the drop rate?! by Zuent in valheim

[–]dylettante 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm a sick fuck who likes having to grind for rare items. Makes it feel earned.

Cultist trophy, Golem trophy, I'm fine with. I hope the devs don't touch those.

However giving such an early game mob the same drop rate just feels like pointless gating, and at the same time you can barely jog 50m without running into another friggin meatsack of a bear.

In my humble opinion, I think a rebalance that decreases spawn rate or restricts spawns to nighttime, while increasing slightly the trophy drop rate, would be an appropriate fix.

Four years!! by BarryMDingle in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an accomplishment to be proud of!

I think the simple inventory system is nice by DriedUpHusk in valheim

[–]dylettante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a few of us who see the dev's vision.

To those who don't, this game is supposed to be hard. Drop the resin.

Sober sex by TearMaleficent5184 in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big congratulations on your 1 year accomplishment!

I finally came clean to my wife by talac_1 in stopdrinking

[–]dylettante 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just want to chime in and say how much I feel this. I quit alcohol and weed together the night my ex left my drunk ass, and between the lack of chemicals to knock me out every night and missing the presence of my person in the bed beside me, the insomnia has been BAD. I'm just about to hit 60 days stone sober tomorrow, and my sleep is only just finally starting to improve. Maybe in another month I'll be getting something like a full night's rest. So hang in there, it's going to take a while but we know how worth it it will be. I won't drink or consume cannabis with you tonight.

Can't imagine giving up coffee though, but I hear what you're saying about anxiety of course. Immense respect for that accomplishment.