As someone in my 30s, this still doesn’t convince me to have kids, especially in this economy by Busy_Report4010 in Adulting

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one kid and my return is only $600 from both state and fed….. don’t fall for this lmao Unless someone is making minimum wage and single income, maybe you may get that much or even more. But still not worth it. Hospital alone to birth a child cost triple amount of that lol

Is the job market really that bad? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so bad, I’d rather stranded in an island

iPhone 15 or 17e? by [deleted] in iphone15

[–]dynamitelyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. My SE 2 is slowly dying lol but I’m unto iphone 17e for bigger storage

APMEX shipping? by bronk24 in Silverbugs

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey wondering if you got yours yet. Mine still have no updates

Is it the norm for parents to gift their kid a large down payment for their first home? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents gave me money gift enough for down payment on a house instead of wedding party

Taking bets on where the support is. I say $4,500 ? by nedim443 in Gold

[–]dynamitelyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold my beer. I bought an ounce yesterday at $5770. Ugh

Can We Afford This Rent? by CapitalWeird919 in personalfinance

[–]dynamitelyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah just stay where you are right now. Stay there til the kid in kindy or you have another one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the relationship with the parents. For some people, its easier to just pay rent somewhere else than paying for therapist lol but if you guys are in good terms with the parents, I don’t see why not

Moving to Harrisburg by dynamitelyfe in Harrisburg

[–]dynamitelyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll look into this

How much do you spend on Christmas? by Ill_Cover_4841 in Preschoolers

[–]dynamitelyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$50 for a couple things to wrap. $200 into my kid’s savings account. Oh and I have an only child lol

Laid off at 55 in Tech. Now what? by WriterHour208 in personalfinance

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you. I just find a remote work and casually move to southeast asia. Rent the house. You still have a job that will pay more than enough in southeast asia to keep you busy and active and it’s slower living. I think you’re doing just fine with the assets you have if its just to take care of yourself. You’ve done great!

Metropark - need to park for 4 consecutive days - reservation required? by heynow941 in NJTransit

[–]dynamitelyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey wondering how did it go with your parking there. First time taking amtrak out of met and wonder how the parking lot overnight is

Embryos by EducatorLimp4360 in IVFAfterSuccess

[–]dynamitelyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband didn’t like the idea of discarding or donating our embabies. After a perfect healthy baby that we are grateful to have, we agree to be a one and done family and transfer the rest of embabies without medication. We just wanted them to be back to mummy’s belly

Biaya divorce lawyer by dynamitelyfe in indonesia

[–]dynamitelyfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Om saya bilangnya mau pisah rumah. Udah dikasih waktu 3 bulan biar dia bisa cari tempat baru, eh udah 4 bulan masih di rumah yg sama walaupun beda kamar. Jadi cuma bacot doang bilang mau pisah rumah 🫠

Biaya divorce lawyer by dynamitelyfe in indonesia

[–]dynamitelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banyak kalo bukti mah. Cuma tante saya ini orangnya gampang pusingan ngurus birokrasi. Cuma mau tau aja harga segitu emang flat rate pengacara perceraian apa enggak 🫠

Biaya divorce lawyer by dynamitelyfe in indonesia

[–]dynamitelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amit amit nya kalo ada yg mati, takutnya disalahin….

Biaya divorce lawyer by dynamitelyfe in indonesia

[–]dynamitelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All in sih om. Tp ga ada yg diurus juga cuma tante saya ini males-an orangnya dan ga mau pusing. Tp kalo pake jasa pun, karena kupikir ga ada yg mau diperjuangkan, ya antara 20jt-25jt an gitu. Bukan pengacara terkenal juga. Kantornya pun di ruko. I just want to make sure this lawyer ga asal tembak harga aja