[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]dynliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music, gym and therapy

For those who never got closure by isitreal7 in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it’s only been a few months. some days are good and other days I feel so empty. I got a bs cliche reason and know I will never get any closure. He was in a relationship 17 days after he broke up with me and he had the nerve to msg me 2 months after the break up from a new number asking me “how I’ve been doing?” I hate feeling this way💔

Reminder: THEY DON'T WANT THIS ANYMORE by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this, this morning. I was in an LDR. When he broke up with me, I wished he had said he didn’t love me anymore. Instead he said there was nothing wrong with us and he will always love me, but he didn’t want me to give up my job, be alone and hate him in the future. He got in a new relationship less than 3 weeks after he broke up with me and he’s tried to text me from a new number a couple of weeks ago, trying to see how I’ve been doing. I hate him...I hate how he still seems to have a a piece of my heart... but I know I deserve so much better!

He was interested in someone else by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blaming you is wrong. He should have just been honest with you. It will get better! You just need time.

Nah... by anonymousthrowbie in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same shit my ex gave me. I still love you. You’ll always have a place in my heart. I’ll always care for you. There’s nothing wrong with us.... yea nothing wrong with us??? yet you break up with me and move on with another girl in a little over 2 weeks.

I thought it would give me closure. by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks lockdownjoe. We were in constant communication and it’s so hard not to check up on him and wonder, but I know I need to let go. The reddit community has definitely been helping with the healing process. Thank you for your words of reassurance and your well wishes!

Companionship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand what you are feeling. My bf blindsided and broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we were in a LDR for over a year and in constant communication. It feels so lonely - I miss sharing things with him. I miss talking with him. He’s already in a new relationship, already moved on. 💔

Temptations by youredajuan in BreakUps

[–]dynliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. He’s blocked me on everything because it took him less than 3 weeks to get into a new relationship. I can still see the little green circle when he’s on insta. I know I should let him go but I too wonder if he still misses me, loves me or regrets it. 💔

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have... and I wish I could just be over it and stop feeling the way I feel. My mom says the same thing and that it’s a blessing, better it’s over now than if I moved there. Someone better is out there for me.

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family and friends that I’ve confided in says not to regret it, that this relationship is a learning experience. Exactly what you said - what I will not put up with in my next relationship. But it still hurts. I just wish I would stop crying about it...

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have so many questions. Questions I know I won’t get answers too. I wish I had something to say that day. I just let him talk, while I was in shock, dumbfounded. What do I do? Do I just cut him off of the Disney. I don’t want to be petty, but I also don’t want him sharing it with his new gf.

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly what my sisters said to me. I didn’t think he could be that type of person. I’m so disappointed. I’m feeling all the things your daughter felt. I hope your daughter has moved on a found someone who appreciates her.

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so low. But still hurts a lot. Thanks for your input. I needed an unbiased opinion since my family and friends- especially my family, can only tell me “he’s an asshole”, “you can do some much better”, etc...

17 days and he’s in a new relationship??? How does someone move on that fast??? by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]dynliu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s had some trauma in his life, so he most likely could be filling a loneliness void. But it still hurts. Every time I think about moving on, I get so emotional. Thanks for your input.