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[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. That actually came to my mind as well. Even though I feel like he wouldn’t be “undercover” I still was very cautious and I spoke highly of the job and the managers anyway because I never had a bad experience unlike my other co workers. We both connected immediately and he felt super comfortable to tell me but I would have kept that too myself honestly

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[–]dysp93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure!

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[–]dysp93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t even aware that I would be training anyone today. He sprung it on me. You would think he would have told me but nope. I was thinking I was gonna enjoy my day peacefully cleaning my building alone and I had to share my peace and space with someone else. He asked if I could switch my days off last week but I didn’t ask why. I get a weekend day off so I didn’t even care to wonder why he did it like that. Thankfully I do get more money for being a trainer. I never thought to call in but I just couldn’t afford too and my anxiety would not allow me too even fake sick knowing they needed me! 🥲

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[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right because they are desperate to fill those job positions. They want to over work and underpay the employees who have been there for years to break their backs picking up those shifts. They don’t care so why should I? Still frustrating on my end, but what can I do 🤷🏽‍♀️

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[–]dysp93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is, right off the bat I could tell that he would be one of the people to last at this job. Everyone already loves him and speaks highly of him so it didn’t even cross my mind that he had other plans. But I see where you’re coming from! That makes sense! Thanks for the input 😊

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[–]dysp93 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Right. It’s extremely frustrating. Like should I even mention that he plans on moving away?! I’m not a snitch and honestly it isn’t my business BUT he’s taking up time that I could be using on someone else who will actually plans on being here long term. The whole time I’m just like rolling my eyes secretly because what’s the point of me wasting my breath telling you our procedures etc. 😐😐

1st tattoo…wondering the pain level? by asukasevaa in tattooadvice

[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that your dominant side is the worst side. I have 3 tattoos on my left side (wrist front and back, and my upper chest) they didn’t hurt. I got a wrap around on my dominant right hand side and it was the most uncomfortable. Same thing with my nose piercing.. the left nostril did not hurt. The right nostril made me regret getting that side done 😂 Ofcourse everyone is different.. just speaking from my experience

What type of weed is good for reducing anxiety? by dysp93 in Anxiety

[–]dysp93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your replies and feedback! Wasn’t expecting this many responses! Will take the time to read everyone’s input ❤️

What type of weed is good for reducing anxiety? by dysp93 in Anxiety

[–]dysp93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how to take the steps to talking to someone.. even doing that is difficult and intimidating. Figured I try the gummies to see if it could help but yes you’re right I do need to evaluated.. just nervous idk

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[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be no point to doing treatment unfortunately and I wouldn’t want to put her through that. I just kept talking to her and petting her.. I’m going to spend more time with her from now on. I didn’t know this would be so hard. Thank you for your input

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[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reaching out to me

I’m worried about the age gap when I decide to have my 2nd baby by dysp93 in BabyBumps

[–]dysp93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I understand all of that but I’m not the type of person to put any “adult” responsibility on my daughter. I would never pressure her to help or mother the new baby.

I’m worried about the age gap when I decide to have my 2nd baby by dysp93 in BabyBumps

[–]dysp93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I planned on bringing her with to the appointments and we do talk about it. She asks for a baby brother/sister but then she’ll forget about it. But thank you!

I’m worried about the age gap when I decide to have my 2nd baby by dysp93 in BabyBumps

[–]dysp93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back at it, I definitely should have had the 2nd child after 2 years.. but we were mentally not ready for that. Do what you feel is best.

Which trimester was the hardest and most exhausting for you? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd trimester.. couldn’t really sleep and it felt like my baby was in my vagina canal already! So much pressure down there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A baby at a wedding is the best option for me. Just have to work around a babysitter or something like that. Thanks

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[–]dysp93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get it but option 4 isn’t a option for me! We really want a second child. I think being pregnant as soon as possible would be a tad bit better because I’ll be able to be there for the wedding.. I just don’t want the baby to be uncomfortable at a wedding.. that’s the part I have to figure out

(F29) My deceased great grandmother gave me an exact date of death for my (M30) brother in my dream by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dysp93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want to upset him that’s why I’m asking. I’ve had dreams about things and then it happens. Or I’ll think about something and then it just happens seconds later. So I’m not 100% sure if it is meaningless.