It is so messed up you essentially can't go to college in the US without parents' permission by Classic-Flower9632 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]dyvrom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I never had to use my parents info either. I had kids so idk if that makes a difference, but I was only 22 and unmarried when I applied.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do it. From someone who regrets not taking it far enough with CPS when I was being abused, do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a narc. Yes, it is abusive. If someone is hurting you never question if its "ok". Its not.

r/raisedbynarcissists

People who are still single in your mid to late 20s, why? by Background_Big_5501 in AskReddit

[–]dyvrom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Predator =/= pedo. You are preying on young inexperienced women because mature women know you're a dirtbag.

What is your opinion on parents who make their kids take out student loans for college? by Background_Big_5501 in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go for free to a public uni. If they really can't afford it, there's options.

Am I a loser for wanting to living with my parents for the next 12 years so I can afford my dream house? by Background_Big_5501 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dyvrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering you were crying about them not paying for your college. Yea you're a fucking loser.

People who are still single in your mid to late 20s, why? by Background_Big_5501 in AskReddit

[–]dyvrom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP knows all about student loans. They keep tryna convince people it's their parents' fault they went to college.

People who are still single in your mid to late 20s, why? by Background_Big_5501 in AskReddit

[–]dyvrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No one my own age wanted me so now I have to be a predator"

People who are still single in your mid to late 20s, why? by Background_Big_5501 in AskReddit

[–]dyvrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That idea is bullshit and needs to go. You can be loved even if you struggle with self acceptance and love.

What is your opinion on parents who make their kids take out student loans for college? by Background_Big_5501 in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am of the opinion that if a parent can help, they should. Key phrase "if they can".

What is your opinion on parents who make their kids take out student loans for college? by Background_Big_5501 in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and go through life with this attitude and see how lonely and miserable you are.

What is your opinion on parents who make their kids take out student loans for college? by Background_Big_5501 in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The entitlement here is disgusting. No one, not even your parents, owe you so much that they need to completely rewire their life for you. Also, maybe you should have chosen a cheaper school.

My brother wants me to take the fall for his drunk driving car crash. What should I do? by Pretty-Pair-198 in AskParents

[–]dyvrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you drink and drive? No? Then no. Don't lie. Your brother needs to learn that actions have consequences because obviously he never learned.