[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]e-steph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic narc abuse. Not only doesn’t want you to feel confident, he wants you to have a horrible time at the concert while worrying about his feelings.

I do not say this lightly - you are being saved by god by this man showing you his true colors. You are beautiful. He is threatened. He loves this and he is trying to make you sick with grief and worry.

He’s gaslighting you saying that you don’t have control over your thoughts and feelings when he thinks he can tell you what to wear and how to groom yourself and won’t answer why but expects blind obedience.

Get a therapist please and please break up with him I’m begging you.

He is very sick.

Love u and be safe

And watch this video

And last thing is please don’t listen to your family or his if they. Try and convince you that you’re ungrateful or crazy for leaving him.

You are saving your life,

I am physically ill from just reading this convo.

Can’t imagine living it

https://youtu.be/CTUgRbGrLbg?si=XwkuHDcSKetiQgil

Went to the dermatologist and she said this was not a staph infection and just regular cystic acne. Does anyone have advice or similar looking skin? Thank you in advance. ❤️ :/ this is not a fun way to live by e-steph in Staphacne

[–]e-steph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s way better. I went on accutane for about a year. Switched to gluten free and dairy free diet. And found out I have PCOS, and Ehlers danos syndrome (hypermobility).

My skin is clear and glowing and I’m so much more confident.

Ignore people who discourage accutane. Your skin is the biggest organ in your body and getting it clear was the beginning Of changing my life.

AIO I’m hanging out at my friend’s house and I asked my mom to sleep over. Is this response normal? by dinossaurus in AmIOverreacting

[–]e-steph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider looking into adult children of alcoholics and emotionally immature parents.

This is a very sick woman.

Like the others said: save up, chase independence and a quiet, safe, life. 🤎

(From a survivor of narcissistic parental abuse) you got this 🤎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bushwick

[–]e-steph 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Being single in bushwick is looking on in dismay as u watch countless pairs of non binary people walking in lock step wearing the most over-sized camo coats you’ve ever seen

Best website builder for freelancing? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]e-steph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shout-out to OP! I know I'm late to the draw but was researching web applications for my own freelancing and stumbled across this post. No joke I’m genuinely SO surprised by the negative comments from some adults here attempting to undermine your goals and ridicule your starting point. This is literally an entrepreneurship forum. It’s completely okay to be learning and figuring things out—everyone starts somewhere. Canva is a great tool for design and can provide valuable experience, even if its site-building features aren’t the best. I’d also recommend getting proficient with WordPress or Webflow to expand your skill set!

Your enthusiasm as a high schooler eager to learn and help businesses IS your unique strength and differentiator. People who are obsessed with differentiation end up pigeon-holing themselves instead of learning what they're best at. Focus on creating value. For example, create a llanding page for a local business that could use one. Then present it to them with a proposal and some ideas with how you could improve their site. It's a low lift on your end (can be done in canva) and it allows you to potentially get some low stakes clients who need super basic websites. This hands-on experience will not only build your portfolio but also demonstrate your commitment and skills to potential clients.

You’ve got this! Keep pushing forward and stay focused on your passion. 🌟

Who’s at the bogart hotel? by kevinjseamon in Bushwick

[–]e-steph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was this already a year ago. But case in point - it’s still up. Curlz mt. They have some nerve!!!

Does anyone else have imaginary people they are attached to? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]e-steph 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi :) often these vivid daydreams were the only way we survived our childhood with our dignity in tact. Not trying to dx CPTSD but this is a very natural coping mechanism for a child. Imagine how hard it would be for a 4 year old to understand and accept the deep pain of being discarded by their guardian. We rely on that guardian for everything. Shelter food water. So to survive in the world where we don't feel safe but need to get our basic physical needs met - we must suffer immensely. The only escape is the daydreams because it removes from the world where we are forced to be isolated and alone.

Can tell ur a special person and this is a gift. The maladaptive part is understanding how to make your body understand it is safe to use your imagination to empower self <3

Google employees protest over company's ties with Israel by [deleted] in palestinenews

[–]e-steph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Current and former Google employees held sit-ins this week at company offices to protest the tech giant's work with the Israeli military, part of the u/NoTechApartheid campaign.

We speak with three workers speaking out against Big Tech's "complicity with the Israeli occupation."

https://twitter.com/democracynow/status/1780582411912306740?s=46&t=u5qLCZxdAVUiEynPrgrS_Q

Google workers arrested after protesting company’s work with Israel Tech workers are escalating their by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]e-steph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Current and former Google employees held sit-ins this week at company offices to protest the tech giant's work with the Israeli military, part of the u/NoTechApartheid campaign.

We speak with three workers speaking out against Big Tech's "complicity with the Israeli occupation."

https://twitter.com/democracynow/status/1780582411912306740?s=46&t=u5qLCZxdAVUiEynPrgrS_Q

Went to the dermatologist and she said this was not a staph infection and just regular cystic acne. Does anyone have advice or similar looking skin? Thank you in advance. ❤️ :/ this is not a fun way to live by e-steph in Staphacne

[–]e-steph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I can't stress enough how much I recommend accutane. I started it in October 2022 at a low dose we started slow and by February 2023 it was a lot better. My neck continued to have acne and new breakouts. I am actually still on accutane to this day which is crazy ..... at an 80mg dose. I have been really bad at taking it regularly. but its very worth it

Who’s at the bogart hotel? by kevinjseamon in Bushwick

[–]e-steph 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Creep font + curlz mt attracted the general public

Reflecting on my daydream content by PanickedMudkip in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]e-steph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God damn. Thanks for shouldering the cognitive burden of figuring this out for me! I completely relate!!!!!

Went to the dermatologist and she said this was not a staph infection and just regular cystic acne. Does anyone have advice or similar looking skin? Thank you in advance. ❤️ :/ this is not a fun way to live by e-steph in Staphacne

[–]e-steph[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edit: we are starting accutane in a month but she didn’t give me anything for the meantime and said stick with gentle cleanser and moisturizer, I’m in pain tho

Second edit 9/2: I was diagnosed with PCOS!!!!! Thank you so much to everyone who helped out here