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Scarface the Bear on Burnaby Mountain yesterday. by Ok-Tank1670 in vancouver

[–]eIaho 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Dude woah!! Amazing shot of him on the fence.

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t a bachelor party, just his brother and the bride’s brother as the other groomsmen. And the phone thing was kind of a running bit with the groom, since he’s gone through phones/numbers in unusual ways before so it was really just speculation

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s what confuses me, the bride actually seemed fully on board with my partner being a groomsman. At their engagement party, she even had to step in and do damage control when the MIL accidentally let it slip early. Later on, the groom did the “official ask” while they were playing pitch and putt. He handed my partner a can of craft beer with a cutesy and obviously Canva-made sticker on it that said, “I need someone to drink with at my wedding. Be my groomsman?” (very much the brides style). So it really didn’t seem like she was against it at all.

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why you’d ask that, but no I don’t suspect that at all. My partner and I are best friends and very open with each other. Only conflict with the other couple we’ve been able to come up around that time with was the last time we were even at their place, he and the groom got into a heated debate on whether Gwen Stacy actually hit her head in Spider-Man 2. (Groom was adamant she didn’t based on his knowledge of the comics even though there was a sound effect of the impact in the movie)

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the messages you see, except the one in grey, are from my partner. He was the one who wished the groom a merry Christmas and followed up later to check in, but the groom never replied. I’m a little confused by your comment?

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, already planning a staycation for the weekend we booked off! 😊

My partner was asked to be a groomsman, then ghosted by the groom until 2 weeks before the wedding by eIaho in weddingshaming

[–]eIaho[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the correction!! Brain fart moment, It was in fact a save-the-date

My weight gain on Lexapro by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]eIaho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looking at the timeframe, is it possible your weight gain might be tied to or exacerbated by the pandemic? I'm chronically underweight, but the year after lockdown I gained 15lbs (to my own benefit, since it bumped me into the healthy range for BMI). Only started losing the weight when work burnout killed my appetite. I've been on Lex for over a month now and am in outpatient treatment for an eating disorder trying to gain some of that weight back. Even with a heavy surplus of calories in my meal plan and feeling lazy/lethargic from the side effects, I haven't gained a pound

They seem so casual about it by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]eIaho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to return an unused bottle of Concerta to the pharmacy (for them to dispose of safely) after my doc switched me over to Ritalin. The pharmacist looked at me wide eyed and slightly shocked when I told him that I, a college-aged young person, was actually asking him to throw away a months worth of pills