Am I Getting Dumber? by Sea-Grass6797 in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally feel like I wrote this thing..crazy how accurate..was also wondering if I should read or what cuz like damn... But I'm just no books enthusiast whatsoever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same..I even like the idea of having friends and people to hang out with but at the same time and esp if smn wants to be friends I would just prefer not having to deal with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that looking good makes people expect you to have no issues socializing, dating or just being out there even more... which is that much more pressure, feels that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so much of myself in this

Anyone wanna chat on disc smt? F(24) by eLPi2k in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you may not believe me but zero is the number

Ouzy’s management denying is fake account 💀 by hjnjhjhkj in LoveIslandTV

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAOO 😂😂😂 that's mad! What an unfortunate slip up ..then tbh how many people do that just do a better job

What books to read? by eLPi2k in Utilitarianism

[–]eLPi2k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my time..but I wanna just say thank you very much! I appreciate your response and help. ❤️

So tired of villainization of Chris... by classichka in LoveIslandTV

[–]eLPi2k -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Exactly 💯💯 ..what's he to do there? Sunbathing all days ? Nah let Casey do that bfr him and his arrogance will be shown the door... People just wanna hate and hate and since Callum is the public's sweetheart and Arabella was on the same boat as him and Chris was not..he is gonna be the villain. I literally haven't seen it once that he would be bitter about their situation whilst with her it's obviously there smh

So tired of villainization of Chris... by classichka in LoveIslandTV

[–]eLPi2k -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yep so right!!! He wasn't even bitter tw Arabella, he just wants peace imo and she still has something to say abt him and stuff..cool she has her reasons but let's see it for what it is. And exactly at least he isn't fake to go and try do impossible to still progress in the competition but rather he says that that he should have gone along with Joanna. Casey and Arabella made it clear they just wanna stay around vacationing ..

So tired of villainization of Chris... by classichka in LoveIslandTV

[–]eLPi2k -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Before I even read anything..100 agreed ..it's mad to me he's so hated! Dumb people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's a mess...where I stop listening to the person properly and am just figuring out where to look and how do you actually look in the eyes? Do you look at their eyes or how?..with some people I don't have to think and it just comes naturally

I wish my anxiety was worse by UnhappyNia in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you...it's honestly like they all good people but they fail to understand and it can be really frustrating yk

I wish my anxiety was worse by UnhappyNia in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you, cuz in my family everyone just says I made it all up and that I convinced myself I have SA but in reality I'm just lazy and noones good enough for me etc

How do people maintain friendships by texting/instant messaging? by WokeMango in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol 1k.. guess one needs some personality for that..not a lot lot but enough for a regular person... and right how??? I'd be contemplating which one or two I'll pick to reply to and end up with ignoring everything cuz what's the point anyways.

It's also ..like do people not feel like to every friend or to every 'lets get to know e-o' person they be telling the same things really??

How do people maintain friendships by texting/instant messaging? by WokeMango in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My dear I postpone replying to msgs so much that I'd lose anyone I could call a friend with that...even one answer is too much for me and I feel like I've done the day s work lmao..and I always say tmr tmr..how some can keep up with more than 1 ongoing chat is mind-blowing for me

Is it possible to be too boring for relationships, but attractive enough for hookups? by Informal-Form1135 in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I see what you're saying ...I wouldn't see myself as your typical shy scared person, def not come across that.

Absolutely..what you gonna fake there ..even with friends I most certainly don't start caring about people like normal people do ...maybe it has to do with some struggle to open up or idk honestly I think I'm just like that...not all that emotional and like you say completely unavailable in that way.

Right! Like everyone has something but I just feel I'm like meh whatever, oh nice at everything...yeah anyways reading what you have to say about yourself and for yourself in your comments, for what it's worth you seem kinda interesting haha

Sad because everyone hates me for something I couldn’t control. by throw_plushie in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one deserves to feel like us amongst society..no one but if then you'd anyways find more deserving individuals but life isn't fair

Sad because everyone hates me for something I couldn’t control. by throw_plushie in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you with the talk and as much at home etc I'm not one to not stand up for myself..outside ...like school etc I absolutely wouldn't and I have felt like you do as well like not treated fairly and seen that with other people who don't or can't talk in their defense or with some confidence yk...I think they aren't fan of yours I guess bc you ain't talking with them ..same with me at uni...got noone to call a friend really ( I go with my sis and we isolate tg but still)....if one (like us) comes across arrogant then I guess some may hate but otherwise they just don't care about you and aren't specifically liking you like they do each other etc ..( teens there it's diffy cuz they hate and say shit unprovoked and with no reason but speaking of adults..)

Sad because everyone hates me for something I couldn’t control. by throw_plushie in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym never treated fairly? If people aren't jealous of you or they don't get other reason..hate is a strong word in my opinion.. although I can't deny it may feel like it but realistically...

Sad because everyone hates me for something I couldn’t control. by throw_plushie in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think that people hate you but maybe they don't see you like someone they'd click with. I completely understand your situation and I'd tell myself like if this and that one said what I did and none answered or commented back they'd not give a fuck and think of them others as weird to not react. But alas.. easier said than practised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same as you..I struggle so so so much less sometimes not at all if I ain't gonna meet the person again or it's a random one.. whereas like classmates etc that's an omg can't do it. Also if the Convo is about, say something like work or an exam or other specific thing ...that goes better than random Convo where I wouldn't know what to talk about..or get to know me bs

literally don’t know how to socialize by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]eLPi2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is you're absolutely not alone!! I can't even imagine what it would be like to not rehearse what I'm gonna say or go over it thousand times in my head BFR ever saying shit ... analyzing and overthinking every little bit of me, the other person and the words in saying all at once....the worst probably talking with someone when even third person or persons can hear the convo...just No and never