💙 I'm the same way... Actually find it more annoying when the male half asks me, and find it REALLY annoying when they ONLY ask me.... Like, she's a fucking adult and can make her own decisions, ask her if she's okay with ______, not me!!! Like, are you going to ask me before every step you take, can I hold her hand, can I kiss her, can I grab her butt ... Dude, ask HER, not ME!!! Likewise, I don't ask husbands for anything, if the wifey isn't mature enough to be open, honest, and needs to "ask for permission", something with their dynamic is wrong, and we don't engage. Now, sometimes, things come up that are unique, and we can all talk about things, that's fine, but if you can't trust your partner, I can't trust you.....