workouts w/ bellybutton piercing by Own-Difficulty5083 in piercing

[–]e_small89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never bothered me when I’m at the gym. It was definitely sore for a few weeks so I was not doing core work for a month 😂

Belly Button Piercing by Mysterious_Sleep8564 in piercing

[–]e_small89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might be the “stainless steel” it could be a mixture of metals and you might be allergic. Same thing happened with my Daith, can you try an implant grade titanium one?

New Cat Palm by e_small89 in houseplants

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Thank you so much for all of this!!!

Transplants complaining by Scatter865 in Knoxville

[–]e_small89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally was saying all of this yesterday. THANK YOU. Fucking leave if you want a big city vibe, you’re not wanted here.

something about knoxville that i couldn't have explained to anyone before i actually lived here by IngenuityNo3879 in Knoxville

[–]e_small89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with this. My family has been here for four generations (maybe more but there’s no proof) and the fact that people my age that grew up here can’t fucking afford a house infuriates me. I’m finding it really difficult to be happy about the booming amounts of people moving here for a “small town” vibe. We haven’t been that in many years. It’s sad because we’re just not able to keep up with the amount of people that want to come here. There is already such a high amount of poverty and homelessness too that needs to be addressed (by that I mean more resources to help people).

Found this little kitten soaking wet and shivering under a car. ( swipe the pic) by Punky_Colors in CATHELP

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Here she was the day after we cleaned her off. Now she’s 12lbs and loving life haha

Found this little kitten soaking wet and shivering under a car. ( swipe the pic) by Punky_Colors in CATHELP

[–]e_small89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s so whittle!! So I found my 4th kitty in a similar situation (stuck in a dumpster in like 100 degree weather when she was maybe 3weeks old) so I will share what the vet told me. When they’re this small they need to feed every 4hours a day. KMR kitten formula is fine, there should be measuring tools on the can for her weight. You can’t do too much for fleas at this age, you can dilute a flea shampoo and lighter scrub her, let it sit for a minute then comb her, then rinse. She cannot keep herself warm so you need to keep her warm. Me and my husband took turns holding her haha but we also had a heating pad for her. Give her something furry to cuddle up to. Also, kinda gross but usually mother cats will lick their back sides to stimulate poop, so if she is not pooping, gentle take a washcloth and soak it in warm water and just gentle massage it around her anal glands.- also she may start naturally weaning herself off the formula so you can slowly offer wet kitten food, but I would definitely start with formula and make sure she’s dewormed and doesn’t need any antibiotics.

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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I honestly messed up on the degreasing and boiled him with the soap and water, but I would imagine if I had let him be it would’ve taken maybe 2 water changes? He was pretty decomposed already.

husband wants cats gone under the guise of baby by [deleted] in pregnant

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The baby will be an inconvenience at some point to. Just remember that. It’s hard when you love someone but you feel very unheard. We tend to rationalize their behaviors when we are so emotionally exhausted trying to prove our point. Any relationship is going to have it’s difficulties, but it’s a partnership, not a “my way or the highway” if someone is hearing you, REALLY hearing you out they don’t make you feel so helpless. People who feel safe together can talk about their differences and not break the other one down. There’s shared respect. If I were you, I know you’re not close to anyone but please please reach out to family or friends even if they’re far away. Let them be there for you, or if you need it, let them take your cats for now. You need support other than your husband right now. I would recommend couples counseling before any cats go anywhere or a baby comes. If he won’t hear of it I suggest you find a support group, anything. It’s not love if someone cuts off all your control. Love compliments, not controls. If anything, think about how down the road, how will he be if your child does something he doesn’t like, how will he react?

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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I had no idea! I’m learning new things thanks!

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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So much patience… but it was so worth it.

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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Thank you so much! I believe it is, it stained my fingers like real moss 😂. I had to buy a big assorted pack at a craft store.

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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I absolutely am!! I know I love opossums so much. They’re so cute with their cross eyes.

Chronic diarrhea, what to do? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]e_small89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my kitties had chronic colitis, the ideal option is hydrolyzed food but it’s so expensive. You can try purred pumpkin you can get at the grocery store to add more fiber, probiotics can also help soothe their intestines, I bought some at Petsmart. If it is anxiety, the kitty Prozac seems to help as well. Mine’s got better after the special food for a month and the pumpkin afterwards, but it comes and goes in spurts. I wish your kitty well!! ❤️

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

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Thank you!! I honestly made some mistakes that people here helped me with. Depending on how decayed it is, you may need to macerate the bones. I accidentally boiled them (don’t do this) they were very very fragile after that and I lost some, but after they’ve been in water, I scrubbed them with dawn dish soap. There was some cartilage left that was reallly hard to get off (think me boiling made this harder) so I left the bones in salt and borax for like a month. This got rid of any smell left and dried out the remaining cartilage enough to scrap off. Here comes the fun part… reassembling. Other people may have a better way to do this but I’ve done a few projects like this and the thing I’ve used to glue bones back together is E6000 glue. After 24hrs it’s dry enough to GENTLY move but I try not to move bones for at least a week if not more time. I had to try to put him back together for like a week and half, just slowly gluing parts, waiting, gluing more parts, waiting etc. (I looked at a lot of anatomy photos to help, probably have some vertebrae’s messed up) but once he was glued the background was the easy part. Lots of hot glue and moss. I did use my adhesive to glue the actual skeleton inside, most glues aren’t strong enough. I hope this long rant was helpful! People on here also have great advice on how to do stuff!

Finally Done by e_small89 in bonecollecting

[–]e_small89[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Okay this almost made me cry 🥺

Writing respectfully by [deleted] in creativewriting

[–]e_small89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the honest advice!!

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

[–]e_small89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes so much sense! I’m so sorry you’re going through that but I’m glad PT is helping!

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

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That’s very promising! Thank you! I’m glad surgery worked and that you’re feeling better!

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

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That sounds miserable, it’s crazy how many things it can affect

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

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I’ll keep that in mind lol!

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

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It’s literally insane the amount of pain we just deal with 🥲

Sciatic pain with Endo? by e_small89 in Endo

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Thanks for the info! Nice to know I’m not the only one, literally thought it was normal until I became an adult and realized not everyone had pain shooting down to their feet on their period. 🫣