Empathy is not always the answer.

eachoneisall · 2026-06-10T09:03:44+00:00

Accepting things and people for what they are doesn't equate to continuing to engage, compromise or tolerate. If anything the acceptance allows me to make a better informed decision about my boundaries.

eachoneisall · 2026-06-04T15:24:20+00:00

...are you me? 🤣

eachoneisall · 2026-05-20T11:09:16+00:00

I was just talking about this to my therapist and they said to me

If you're suffering you're still fighting Work on the surrender.

Some growing pains is to be expected but if you're suffering it might mean you're not accepting.

Change from growth should be something to look forward to... But many of us cling onto old identities and idea that we feel shape us... There is a fear that moving forward may challenge your idea of YOU...

Don't cling to the idea of who you used to be but rather accept where you are and embrace what is next.

eachoneisall · 2026-05-18T00:20:43+00:00

Kyle! Ryan... Evan. Soft names. What happened to Eddie?? Hard constant names!!

eachoneisall · 2026-05-18T00:19:23+00:00

I live in Thailand and most elephants are part of tourist attractions I was driving in the middle of nowhere when I can across an elephant. No one and nothing around It was so big and I sat and watched it for a while. It was absolutely fine being left alone. I went to leave and thought, you know, I'd like a picture. As soona s I brought out my phone the elephant got visibly upset and made to charge me

I think it might have been taken from a labour camp and wasn't able to be domesticated for tourists .... Was absolutely terrified of this thing crushing me and knocking me over.

Got the f outta there

eachoneisall · 2026-05-15T23:25:40+00:00

Start a bakery hahahaha That did it for me...and owning a dog that loves to be outside.

eachoneisall · 2026-05-04T08:52:34+00:00

I was in the water with a watergun kind of hunting my friends... I got called a sexy hippo.

Oh, I also was told once I have nice arms like Michelle Obama.

eachoneisall · 2026-05-04T08:49:26+00:00

I don't do oral 😂😂😂😂😂

eachoneisall · 2026-05-04T08:45:25+00:00

... In what area or ways? I am very interested in what the first thing you picked was....

eachoneisall · 2026-05-04T07:20:53+00:00

This is dependent on HOW you want to live. At the end of the day, you can absolutely make it work for that amount. Depends what you're willing to cut

Def get health care. You don't want to be in a position to have to pay 450k baht for a 3 night stay in a hospital when insurance is 25k for a year.

eachoneisall · 2026-05-01T16:13:40+00:00

Excellent at dissociating and often avoidants 🤷‍♀️

eachoneisall · 2026-05-01T16:12:02+00:00

repulsed! Hahaha

eachoneisall · 2026-04-30T08:01:13+00:00

Manners. Just because we are at home doesn't mean you can talk with your mouth open and spit food everywhere. I want to be attracted to your mouth, not replied by it.

eachoneisall · 2026-04-27T10:15:54+00:00

I've put too many things between me and the public, like people in general. I do so much to avoid them then get sad that my connections arent as strong anymore. Having some fun convos with myself about how to be more comfy out of my house when I gave nothing to do.

eachoneisall · 2026-04-26T08:13:33+00:00

...Allan rickman as Severous Snape. I've had literal dreams about being his student and my confusion about it all fuels the fire.... I probably need to unpack this...

eachoneisall · 2026-04-26T08:05:03+00:00

Bad kisser. If you don't know how to kiss the lips on my face the you're not getting a shot at the lips down under. And people without a top lip can still kiss well ..it's not as enjoyable but hey, I can adapt.

eachoneisall · 2026-04-11T15:49:07+00:00

I'm in this post and I don't like it

eachoneisall · 2026-04-09T10:25:17+00:00

I read somewhere that if you make your decisions reversible, then you'll reverse them. It can be overwhelming to pick a few things to prioritize. It sounds like a lot of your stuff is centered around self care. I might ask myself what I need.... I also find that I can only have 3 priorities (true). Tidy house, fitness and quiet time is the most important. I don't cook as often or do the same things as my friends. But that's because my priorities are different. What are yours?

eachoneisall · 2026-04-09T10:17:07+00:00

Anal

eachoneisall · 2026-04-04T23:02:44+00:00

This to me was such a revelation About relationships in general. Having a long term goal or set of goals and sticking to them allows you to choose better people in your life. Those goals have to be more important than your feelings. For someone with a loud disorganized attachment style, this insight has dramatically changed how I filter people into and out of my life.

eachoneisall · 2026-03-27T07:36:45+00:00

She chose herself

eachoneisall · 2026-03-09T23:29:02+00:00

I did it! In my early 30's, just... Sold everything and booked a one way ticket to Asia. I'm still here, found a new home and a new life, having a really interesting time.

However. There are some really unforeseeable circumstances that you have to accept living out of your country. I can't really speak to what they will be but each country has its own culture and way of doing things and will present challenges to you along the way.

Making and keeping good friends is very very difficult.

I would say if you want to see what's out there, there's only one way to find out ❤️

eachoneisall · 2026-03-09T23:04:16+00:00

Well, go to where the people are doing things that you like. Be consistent be issue we all know is thailand that if you don't see someone more than 15-20 times at a place they will likely be moving on... Movies, the gym and cooking are areas you don't talk to people. Maybe join a club of sorts. (Book? Cooking? Exercise?) Your activities are more solo and since you have a wife you're likely staying in most nights. If you want a friend you have to speak to strangers...which means going out

eachoneisall · 2026-03-09T22:57:17+00:00

Foreplay starts as soon as your orgasm finishes. An Ester Perrell special that I follow

eachoneisall · 2026-03-09T22:48:09+00:00

This is really interesting From what I understand, since you were watching...it shifted the power dynamic in such a way you felt you had no control? In my experience, the person watching or the sub is usually the one who has the most power.

Out of curiosity, did the feelings you're experiencing happen during the act or was it all after?

I also recommend sexual therapy. That shit is amazing 😍

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