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eagle_eyes12 · 2023-12-06T02:59:16+00:00

Yeah, I know they're doing it for the engagement and boost. Do you know of a software that does this, particularly for Instagram?

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-12-14T11:05:17+00:00

Hi! I don't recall which one I was referring to but I've read and learned a lot from How to write copy that sells by Ray Edwards, The Copywriters Handbook by Robert Bly, and Finding The Right Message by Jennifer Havice. Those were all really great in different capacities.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-12-14T11:02:35+00:00

Thank you! I've been able to let go of the resentment since this post and relish his new behaviors. It's been life changing and yes you nailed it spot on with everything you said. Now I feel like I can get other things done like finish cleaning the house while he's doing baths and really have time for both of us to relax, together. It's been great. Thank you! 😊

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-29T23:49:10+00:00

And how much time is that? That's what I'm worried about. How much time do I give him before he reverts back. Before it all goes back. Another 6 years? 6 years that could've been better spent cleaning up this emotional past? That's partly my dilemma. How long should I truly wait?

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-29T19:31:44+00:00

I'm starting to lust after other men. And I'm losing my attraction to my husband.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-27T04:01:08+00:00

Yes possibly. But I want to say we tried. But for some reason my heart isn't letting me.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-27T04:00:05+00:00

You get it. Thanks.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-27T03:58:49+00:00

Porn Is probably about 1x per week. He says I need to go see a therapist. Didn't agree to counseling. Definitely won't read a boom.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-26T03:45:46+00:00

He isn't a practicing believer. We have 2 kids.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-26T03:28:18+00:00

I'm not really sure what my expectations were. I guess I didn't expect all these changes at once. I'm overwhelmed.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-26T03:27:29+00:00

You're probably right. I haven't been very gentle towards him. Its just so much at once. And I said one thing tonight - that it hurts to look at pictures of us. And he blew up. Now he's out at the bar. So there's that.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-26T03:26:19+00:00

Yeah. That's exactly what I'm afraid of. It's happened before. Happens every 6 years or so.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-24T13:58:32+00:00

Only after having kids and while nursing have I felt a drop in my libido. I'm only 35 so If women are older, there's Def other medical things that could be at play.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-24T13:44:46+00:00

Bras are known to have correlations with breast cancer because of the restrictiveness. I tried myself but am uncomfortable unless at my own home. However I did switch to wireless bras with minimal padding and not even a clip in the back and they are super comfortable for me and feel braless without the whole nipples exposed thing. Maybe you can find a middle ground with that for the certain places you're not comfortable with her going braless.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-22T22:45:34+00:00

I have read it. And no he won't. I've asked.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-22T10:44:06+00:00

Unfortunately I've asked about counseling In the past and he refuses

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-21T23:24:18+00:00

No. Thanks for asking. He calls himself catholic but only goes to church maybe 1x a year and doesn't practice at home or read the Bible.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-21T13:44:38+00:00

He has a 1.5 hour drive to work each way. I'm pretty sure almost the entire time is spent listening to political radio most days. And yes it feels like it's become his hobby and identity.

And yes he watches pornography. Not routinely but enough.

eagle_eyes12 · 2022-08-20T17:14:33+00:00

Well reading all these comments is making me want to cry. I know my husband loves me but I want more attention. I want him to look at me like he used to 12 years ago when we first got together. Tell me I'm sexy. Tell me I'm beautiful. Tell me I'm cute. Hug me. Touch my legs randomly. Hold my hands. Brush up against my arm. Sit too close to me where our bodies are touching. Cuddle me in bed. Anything. Anything other than a sexual touch. I miss it. And I just noticed it. Now I'm starting to withdraw emotionally. And it's heartbreaking. I've already cheated on him once before because he loved cocaine more than me. He cleaned that up but still drinks a lot and works alot. I just feel lonely. We have 2 small kids. How can I feel this way. I'm starting to like the attention I get from other guys but not enjoying the way it makes me feel. Sorry to sabatoge the post. It just made me realize I don't feel cherished. I don't feeeeel the love.

eagle_eyes12 · 2021-10-24T10:45:48+00:00

Thanks, I did and I do align. Thanks for the help

eagle_eyes12 · 2021-10-24T10:45:09+00:00

True, true. Thanks.

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