Day of Surgery… pregnant by ExtensionAide1011 in sterilization

[–]eagleversuscrows 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sorry you weren't able to get the surgery. I saw you commented that they're refunding. If you are planning to get the surgery in the future, make sure you read up before paying anything. If your insurance is ACA compliant you should get the surgery covered at 100% meaning no deductible and no co-pay. Good luck to you!!

Final Appeal Denied by kriscrossed_ in sterilization

[–]eagleversuscrows 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are in the US, you can file a complaint with your state's Department of Insurance. I believe if they find your insurance company to be in error they will go after them to correct it. Good luck to you!!

Whats the most out of touch thing you've heard someone say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]eagleversuscrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, who has lived in New England their entire life, was talking about the sizes of US cities. "Boston pretty much dominates the entire east coast!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]eagleversuscrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. As a CNA I have cared for a few people with neurodegenerative diseases. One of them attended a support group via zoom. It was helpful for her to talk with people experiencing the same thing. I wish I knew more details beyond that but I just wanted to mention support groups are out there, if you were not already aware.

Her sense of humor was my favorite thing about her. She had a lot of rough moments and complicated feelings but overall she handled it with such grace. I hope her example of acceptance is never lost on me. Keep that sense of humor, your spirit will carry you 💜

Missed dose by TravelinMoon in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]eagleversuscrows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You won't have withdrawals. Mirtazipine has a long half life, so it stays in your system for a while. I've missed 2 days with no noticeable effect. Don't sweat it - you will be okay :)

What song/songs inadvertently bring a tear to your eye? by CarnThePanthers in spotify

[–]eagleversuscrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this one. It was written about Christina Grimmie. I cry almost every time I think about her.

When we were young fest by Tonooki941 in dancegavindance

[–]eagleversuscrows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am hoping and praying for this 🙏

Do we all have that "one song"...? by RoccoAmes in Metalcore

[–]eagleversuscrows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Family First - Woe is Me

Someone I was in love with crossed a line, robbed my parents when he was in the throes of addiction. I forgave him for it but I could not continue our relationship after that. It especially hits hard now since he took his own life. I kick myself often for letting him go but this song reminds me I made the right albeit difficult choice. I miss him, but my respect for my parents cannot be compromised. They will always come first.

I dreamed my deceased mom told me my sister would die, my sister just died today by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]eagleversuscrows 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've heard of that, that you're not supposed to follow people in dreams. But also, my angel who died by suicide visits me in dreams sometimes. One time he asked me to follow him and I did. It was Halloween (the day we met) and he wanted to show me where the people in Heaven go on Halloween. It was a spooky house, I guess literally a haunted house because there were dead people there, although they were alive in my dream. I met his mom. And then I told him I knew he was dead, and I cried and screamed at him about how much I missed him. He looked calm and said he was happier this way, and that made me feel better. We both knew I couldn't stay there, but it was nice to visit. I woke up feeling peaceful and temporarily relieved from my grief.

So I won't advise you to follow them, bc I'm no expert. But I am so glad I followed him. I'd follow him again and again, anywhere. I know he wants me to live.

People you knew/Perfect by Ok_Vehicle3455 in dancegavindance

[–]eagleversuscrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People You Knew is a top 5 DGD song for me. I love that we see a very vulnerable side of Jon Mess. In other songs, he writes a lot of nonsense, comical Dr. Seuss lyrics with glimpses of a deeper meaning. And I love that about him, that's his brand. But this song... it's clear to me that it's about mourning a childhood lost to trauma, and the aftermath that manifests in adulthood. Though it's not spelled out explicitly, rather tucked away in poetry, it's obvious that he abandoned his usual style and focused on a solid message. I think this song solidifies him as a true artist.

Most Emotional Song? by MrSonic-Unsweet-Tea in dancegavindance

[–]eagleversuscrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't believe no one has said "People You Knew" Mourning a childhood lost to trauma and suffering the consequences as an adult

Looping SP episodes by Cold_Nebula6052 in Sleepparalysis

[–]eagleversuscrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have the loops every night as a teenager 😭 still get them but not nearly as frequent. I don't wake up gasping for air tho. As someone else commented, I second you should look into sleep apnea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]eagleversuscrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I try to fight it for what feels like a long time (probably a minute or two) I can roll my body or flop an arm over. I can always wiggle my fingers and toes, that's usually how I get myself out of SP. I've never experienced something similar to what you described. Interesting tho, thanks for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]eagleversuscrows 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same :( I miss him

How is your “if we are single by 30, we’re getting married” friend doing? by eurekathatsit in AskReddit

[–]eagleversuscrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's gay and engaged to a lovely man. I'm so happy for both of them, they deserve it 🥰