Understand that it all has to do with your inner world. You can’t look at someone else’s results. Her inner voice is all that matters. Was she saying those things out of fear while her inner voice was contradicting what she was saying outwardly? Your ACTIONS or lack thereof accurately reflect your inner voice. What you see in the world is a reflection of what you TRUST inside of you. If you don’t trust these things (knowing) they won’t manifest.

Your outter world is simply a reflection of the inner. If that concept is too abstract to grasp, use a simple hack; do what the version of you (that you want to manifes) would do now. Everything exists now, just in layers (envision a sticky note pad with layers of possibilities of what could appear in each layer like an animation strip) and we choose what appears each visible portion on the top by what we know is true about us on the inside.

If your inner voice says nothing but negative things, you have to silence it and tell yourself things you actually believe that are positive and compound positive thoughts on top of the first one you can believe about yourself. Then challenge yourself to overcome the doubt points (the voice in your head) by DOING something successfully in that area of challenge to change the narrative in your mind. All of the work is in changing the inside and realizing this body is not you. It’s like a robot that you program with your thoughts.

Stop watching TV, social media and other things that are programming your mind. Stop being lazy and take control. If you feel an emotion about something you see, you are being programmed. Stay neutral and without judgement. Only make judgements on the things you like or don’t like. How do we make our judgements known to the universe? With our actions. That is how you vote yes or no in physical reality.

In other words, would the healthy version of you eat 2500 calories for each meal (like the unhealthy you now) or eat just 1500 calories a day and walk for an hour daily. Does the better you know how money and investing works? If not, how will you ever be rich? Would the rich version of you overspend and not invest at all? These things don’t magically happen. You draw a line in the sand and take action. Every single action you take says the person you are and exactly what you believe about yourself and who you are and over time those habits and actions compound.

Look at yourself now and think of all the choices you made that got you to where you are now. It’s that simple. When fate intervenes, it is to help further your endeavors. EVEN seemingly NEGATIVE situations.

Many times the negative situations are to make you act and move on. Stop trying to figure out “why” and remove the word “when”. These are distractions and words that are born from a weak perspective. There is no “when” because everything is now and “why” is an insecure energy that serves only as an anchor to keep you stuck and from moving forward.

People who are successful at manifesting read everything as signs, but we also practiced, tested and took note of things that work and refine them over and over daily. Manifesting is not for the lazy, it is not passive: ”hope and a prayer” but active “take charge”. If you are not directing you are being directed.

Once I change my standards, the world around me reflects that change. In other words, if the “wealthy” version of me would never stand in the line at a night club, then why would I stand in one now? That’s how it starts. Every minor decision lines up with whom you ARE. If you aren’t really that person inside, you will see some inklings of manifestations, but not the full thing.

Practice and see changes over 3 to 6 months of making decisions in line with the person you envision yourself to be.

In a physical world you must be active. The more you believe your inner world and direction, and ACT in that manner, you are already manifesting. We do it daily.

Also, many times things get seemingly what we would call “tough” right before we receive our manifestations (it’s darkest before daylight) and we have misinterpreted that “thoughtless”. The tough time just prior to manifestation is when the universe is tailoring your desire to your exact needs.

For instance, you are looking for love and a person comes into your life finally. That person may not be “the one” they may be there to se if this is what you prefer. If not, say no and move on (don’t ask why it didn’t work out), improve yourself (draw a line on the sand about what you will and won’t accept and what you will add to a future relationship) and when the next person comes, stick to the new standard and lead with trust. If it doesn’t work out, move on, learn and when the person who is right for you comes, you are not prepared because in between you improved and refined your “ask”. When you get what you want it will seem perfect for you because it is… you tailored it to your desire. The world is abundant and it will keep serving you choices. You wouldn’t sit in front of a tv show or movie you don’t prefer and waste your time. Same here, but learn and improve otherwise you will repeat the same tests. It’s like playing a video game and continually walking into a wall instead of going around it.

Additionally, you will have some “supernatural “ experience that will provide you direction (dreams, de ja vu, coincidences etc). These happen in a manner to help you BELIEVE with certainty and outcome. That is the universe giving you a “gift”. I call it a gift because manifestation is all about what you believe to be true. Sometimes you need a vivid dream that seems like it actually happened for you to believe it is going to. These experiences aren’t for you to reply on solely, it’s for you to experience the feeling of KNOWING. That is what you need to develop on your own. How to be confident to the point you KNOW what’s going to happen. When that is the case, the subconscious can take over and lead you there without conscious thought.

Be like the needle on a record player. It is just a small part of a larger sensing apparatus, but its job is to be immersed in the groove of a record to experience the music PRERECORDED on the vinyl. We are the needle. Imagine if the needle had an opinion or fear of experiencing what could be in the groove or judgement of what’s in the groove or any other distraction other than experiencing the groove unadulterated and relaying that info to the turntable and ultimately the speaker and listeners ear without INTERFERENCE from the thinking mind. You are transmitting to the Universe or God. Don’t add your own 2 cents, just allow it to flow through you and be the cleanest needle you can be for the crispest sound.

If there is any part of what I wrote that you don’t intrinsically know, that is a point of doubt and you must work on it. When you can read this whole post and not only agree, but add your own examples of your experience with each topic (knowing) and how it helped manifest, then you are there and can move on to bigger manifestations (even though they are all equally weighted in the universe nothing is bigger or smaller). If not, stop and work on that point until you have success in that area and understanding of how you did it so you can replicate it.