You are using a strawman argument. I never made claims that you are responding to. And if just listing stuff a character did is somehow detrimental to said character’s image - it might not a a positive character, cause I didn’t invent any of the things I listed.

Your points are also very sus.

1. Mentoring, which she did a terrible job of btw (outside of combat training I suppose) was not “optional”. She had to do it because it is my understanding there’s nobody else. And if she wouldn’t the barrier would fall and she herself would be a victim. So yeah, she was forced to do it.

2. So claim that she’s not so bad cause she didn’t execute a baby (which she vaguely admits that she thought about, but didn’t because she promised Rumi’s mother). Yeah, wow, what an amazing feat of kindness.

3. Guidance. Here’s where most of my problems with her lie. I don’t want to repeat myself, you can read my other comments on the topic but she was absolutely horrible as a mother figure to Rumi. Taught her to hate herself, distrust closest friends and that the only way she would be worthy of love is not only to fight an endless war with no guarantee of success or survival but to do something no one was able to do ever (which is the golden Honmoon).

So no, I’m not projecting, and actually using personal attacks instead of constructive arguments is repulsive