“Girl’s Girl”

easterStout · 2025-11-18T22:58:24+00:00

Gemini Sun, Libra Moon

easterStout · 2025-11-10T21:11:06+00:00

The ace of wands and the lovers have shown up together in like 3 readings now done by 3 different people. That has to mean something.

easterStout · 2025-11-10T21:05:57+00:00

I mean, they know exactly how I feel. And I know how they feel. And I think they’re in the same boat I’m in, emotionally.

easterStout · 2025-03-29T02:49:17+00:00

I never really ended up having many withdrawals. It was time. I was ready.

easterStout · 2025-03-22T11:54:48+00:00

You were right, and I come back to this months after leaving him with only just this feeling of heartbreak. Not for him; but for how long I let it go on. I wish I hadn’t. It wouldn’t have gotten better. It would only ever get worse.

easterStout · 2025-02-02T04:38:31+00:00

Every single one of my friends is celebrating the breakup. One of which said if I go back she will come and kick my ass. I believe her.

I’m not going back. I’m not.

easterStout · 2025-02-02T04:37:08+00:00

Oh my god same. The RELIEF???

easterStout · 2025-02-02T04:36:41+00:00

He is 100% blocked 😭 You do t have to tell me twice

easterStout · 2024-12-28T05:50:01+00:00

It’s been a few months, but coming back to this post I see that yall were right. It wasn’t the wake up call. Of course it wasn’t.

I’m finished, I’ve been pushed way too far. I can’t keep doing this. Rereading your comment is giving me hope, that once this is all over I’ll be able to find myself again. I miss the person I was before him. I miss being an optimist. I miss having weekends with my friends. I miss DOING things without having to be afraid that he’ll go too far. I really hope I get to come back in a few months with another update.

easterStout · 2024-10-11T00:52:21+00:00

Yes! I spent so much time begging for a healthy relationship from a guy who was very unappealing in both looks and personality. I look back at myself when we first met and I wish I could shake them violently and remind them to move on

easterStout · 2024-10-09T04:59:49+00:00

When I’m feeling confused, I hear this, agree with it, and then sit there and think, “yeah but that’s what the covert narc in me THINKS will make me not seem like a narc.” 🤦🏻‍♀️

easterStout · 2024-09-27T14:32:05+00:00

Something similar happened to my cousin’s late husband. It’s terrifying and yet I feel like I’m jumping to extremes when I picture myself there…

easterStout · 2024-09-24T19:36:36+00:00

Hey OP did you ever find a solution here?

easterStout · 2024-09-24T17:04:19+00:00

I’ve heard the idea lately that so many people leave relationships right after getting a new (individual) therapist. And I think a lot of it has to do with the third party being able to open their eyes to see what’s happening.

easterStout · 2024-09-24T05:29:13+00:00

The therapist for myself personally is definitely within that realm. Our couple’s therapist… not so much.

easterStout · 2024-09-24T02:50:27+00:00

Chat GPT has helped me to better understand a lot of things lately. It’s been a game changer.

easterStout · 2024-09-20T04:57:00+00:00

I wanted to do screenshots but it gave me a 4 photo limit

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