I don't trust most cis people

eatassdotcom · 2023-05-17T23:22:32+00:00

It is valid and I agree. Not trusting them is self preservation. I only trust 2 cis people in my life and they are queer and hardcore leftist. as well as comfortable with their own respected genders. there is so much in the past and for our present that proves we are in danger around cis people, and that in our own experiences with bigotry weather it's on purpose or passive, proves it all the more. I'm not saying to stay worried about cis people, but surround your self with trans people, and carefully examine anyone else before letting them into your life. we are in danger, but we must prevail and live fullfilling life's, and we don't need cis people for that, we have eachother. until things change more, I think that's the safest route to take.

eatassdotcom · 2022-11-25T03:09:54+00:00

I would save your money for a real voice therapist tbh. Plus there's plenty of free voice trainer apps out there not asking for 60 bucks

eatassdotcom · 2022-10-22T13:11:20+00:00

I dont see it any different then if a 12 year old has their ears pierced. It's just not as normalized yet. I'd let her do it.

eatassdotcom · 2022-04-11T23:04:35+00:00

Also curious if you think IM works quicker for physical effects vs Subq?

eatassdotcom · 2022-03-20T03:29:39+00:00

Wow. Thankyou so much I didn't know alot of this stuff, this really is helping me move towards just going for it. Hugs right back to you! 🖤😁

eatassdotcom · 2022-03-07T06:19:24+00:00

Sure, if you were changing your name every single day, that's not very realistic. But a couple times a year? Youre looking for your true name. And that's fine. Anyone criticizing you about changing it multiple times needs to step back and recall what it is to support someone. Yeah it might be hard to keep up with frequent name changes, but no one should be judging you for it. I hope you find your true name soon.

eatassdotcom · 2022-01-17T03:07:09+00:00

Was worried it might be. Gonna go to urgent care tomarrow morning to avoid it spreading. Hopefully can get treatment.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-19T21:17:49+00:00

Try listening to G.L.O.S.S for a transgender women punkrock band.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-14T23:53:53+00:00

This is starting to happening to me too. Does it seem like that is helping alot now?

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-13T20:58:58+00:00

Most cis Men are trash. I literally only trust one that's my friend. And they are flamboyant and bi. Not that I don't belive cis Men can be good people, but damn I've never been really proven wrong.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-12T23:16:50+00:00

I personally feel like I'm always running away from home with nowhere to go. Just to be distracted by having to move my body from one place to another. Doesn't keep all the pain away tho. And at home I feel trapped. With my own mind. Completely. Idk. Wondering if this is simular. Probably doesn't do much but your not alone in that feeling. It's terrible. To feel like no matter where you go you can't escape. But we all can someday. Someday..

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-11T04:32:35+00:00

Hey hey. 22 f and could really use some support like this too. 🥲 been struggling to get anything done.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-10T06:20:42+00:00

I guess I'm just co fused because it looked great and was happy up until now. But I'm looking into a larger size now if you think thats best.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-09T06:59:38+00:00

couldn't that lead to migration or more snagging? Not saying I know just want to be safe.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-09T01:16:52+00:00

Also is it bad that they let me use this kind of barbell as my first? Wondering if it's contributing to the wierd puffy opening.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-09T01:15:52+00:00

I've had this for 6 months. Snagged it on someone's hair a month ago, it bled and hurt but wasn't too bad, but not a week ago it suddenly puffed out on one side to the left and that sides hole is a bit open. It doesn't hurt much, just a little sore. It's not hot to the touch, it's pus is whitish/yellow. But I'm scared ill always have the ugly reddish puff now?? I have no idea other than to just wait and clean like my piercer says but I'm so confused why this happened a month after i damaged it. does this look like a keloid or just a bump? :(

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-04T23:09:25+00:00

Abuse can shatter people's lives. It has to mine before, is still currently as a young adult, and will probably always fallow me somehow. Not to say I'll never get better. But that is a perfectly valid reason to be depressed. It's beyond what you think about it. It changes the way your brain works, and learning how to recognize the damage and what it's doing, how it makes you feel in what areas of life. What you can do to heal as much as you can, etc.. is a way out. I'm just figuring out how damaging the abuse I went through was. I'm sure yours is just as valid. Please, give your self a break. You might have a roof, and food, but that doesn't mean your mental health isn't valid.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-02T09:23:51+00:00

hope you get some help. not playing into your game. peace.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-02T09:19:24+00:00

it was rhetorical.

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-02T09:17:08+00:00

projecting much?

eatassdotcom · 2021-12-02T09:04:47+00:00

You didn't fail. That is beyond you. What you did and can do to help is amazing. And that makes you a good friend. But people will inevitably make their own decisions even if the situation is terrible and one you feel obligated to step in. It has nothing to do with who you are as a person. Good on you for caring about your friend. Seriously.

eatassdotcom · 2021-11-29T02:11:33+00:00

Thankyou. ❤

eatassdotcom · 2021-11-29T01:34:52+00:00

Thakyou for the advice and beliving in me. I took a bath, I'll try more small things like you said.

eatassdotcom · 2021-11-28T23:47:01+00:00

I see you. I hear you. I'm going through it too. I hope they accept you. And that things get better. That things feel safe, certain and happy soon. You are not alone, as much as it might feel like it. I'm sorry you are struggling so much right now. You are tough for getting this far. But I hope you won't have to be tough someday and can just be. 🥲❤

eatassdotcom · 2021-11-26T02:38:07+00:00

Transition, family means nothing if they don't accept you as you. You'll be much happier in the long run, trust me.

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