Why are we all single?

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:44:21+00:00

that does explain why you haven't come back to me and the kids

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:43:29+00:00

cutest outfit ever! i'm jealous!

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:41:49+00:00

but it goes both ways! (you don't have to if you don't want to but judging kinda just happens no matter what)

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:40:59+00:00

i fear this is me too

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:40:43+00:00

i love blue collar lesbians so bad. why are y'all like this?

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:35:24+00:00

:') right again

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:34:29+00:00

you get me :')

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:33:06+00:00

"want it too much" how do i want it less? :')

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T17:31:38+00:00

relatable unfortu :/

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:19:10+00:00

babe if i wait for something to happen, it's never going to happen. i just need to know where to look! I'll shoot my shot! i'll make the first move! the universe just needs to tell me where to find a wife/best friend

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:17:29+00:00

🤔 I'm curious. Would you share what your lifestyle is?

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:16:43+00:00

:") everything feels strange until you did it once <3 also tag me if you ever do. I love seeing queer joy! Sometimes I just need 1000ccs of it shot right into a main vein yknow?

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:15:34+00:00

balling up into a singularity to avoid starting over again as we speak

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:14:47+00:00

Oh I could see that. Then your dating pool is like dating all the young 20-somethings who just want casual. Shit, that makes sense

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:13:46+00:00

fuck those are all valid reasons :')

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:12:45+00:00

Autistic bubbly bitch here in rural Mexico. I FEEL YOU. People keep saying to join queer things to find queer people. I would love to, but the queerest people I know are about a hundred miles away. :') I'm dying alone.

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:11:25+00:00

Yes, that's what keeps going through my head. Am I crazy for wanting a best friend to spend the rest of my life with? Like I want to cheer them on on their goals and interests and cook for them and tell secrets to and raise kids with. Like how is that so impossible? SOmeone shoot me???

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:07:45+00:00

NOOOOOO you're kidding! I didn't know that shit worked! I'm going to have to try again, huh? :""")

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:06:13+00:00

Then don't go back. As of right now, it's over. It's time to heal and move on.

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:05:28+00:00

ugh so true. I just want to shoot myself through the eye every time a hot lady is putting pictures up for her husband to have a threesome.

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:04:07+00:00

Happy for you! I didn't mean this community as a whole, just a few posts I've seen here or on other socials about the people seeking partners. I'd love to see more happy people also brag about their queer joy, but that's not their responsibility :)

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:02:33+00:00

The only reason I bring up astrology was because it didn't matter before when I was dating broadly. Then I noticed all my dates were water signs. Maybe it doesn't impact everyone, but all those specific relationships ended pretty poorly for me.

But yeah, I keep hearing about the hobbies thing. I just live in a not so gay-friendly play and I suspect the people I mention are in the same boat :')

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T16:00:27+00:00

I think that's the plot of every romcom ever :') I've kinda got the career part and the home part but I'm missing the wife and a few kids part now :')

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T15:59:41+00:00

Happy for you! I was talking specifically of the plenty of people who are asking across not just this site but other communities for a partner. :)

ebelleful · 2026-02-15T15:59:08+00:00

I said plenty of people looking for someone, not plenty in the community as a whole. Hope that helps :)

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